Ready, Locktober is here

For anyone in the chastity community, October is one thing: Locktober. For those who love chastity, whether experienced key figures and wearers, or for the first time curious about it, this month-long event has become a playful challenge and ceremony.

What is Locktober?

The premise is simple: stay locked throughout October. For some, this means strict chastity and does not appear until November. For others, this is more of a commitment to this month’s denial, constraints and pornographic control of headspace, regardless of the exact wear time.

What sets Locktober apart is that it brings the global chastity community together. The social media feed is filled with photos, diaries, encouragement and humor of participants. This is how to connect with others who share your interests, compare experiences, and celebrate long-term lockdown fun (sometimes frustration).

If you are considering joining, it’s time to prepare:

• Ensure your equipment is comfortable and safely installed.
• Discuss expectations, limitations and security with your partner or key holders.
• Store lubrication on lubricants, cleaning supplies and anything you need to do good hygiene and comfort during extended wear.

Locktober can be as easy or intense as you want. The challenges faced do not necessarily prove anything to anyone, but rather explore your own desires, boundaries and relationships of control and pleasure.

Want to study in depth?

Whether you’re locking in for the first time or fifth year, this is the perfect excuse to celebrate a chastity game throughout the month. I have written extensively on male chastity, key and denial here: “Male Virginity: Everything You Need to Know”

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