Potential date for hinge users to cancel “red signal” behavior

This sweet date quickly turns sour before even starting.

A New Jersey woman tells the “red flags” behavior that prompted her to cancel the ice cream date after the boy refused to compromise on the spot.

Singleton Krishna Shah said in this week’s topic post that she agreed to match the dating app on the dessert date.

He asked her to see him at 8:30 pm in a place she “unfamiliar with…but it borders a dark town”. Not to mention, the ice cream shop was rated 3.4 and she said “is it for me”.

“I politely told him that I didn’t feel the place and sent two other suggestions (ratings of 4.7 and 4.8), one even closer to the town he told me he lives.” Shah recalled, later adding that she suggested handmade ice cream and small waterfalls in Maplewood and Maplewood in place of his cold-le-cream and creamy flowers.

“I asked both of these work for him.”

“No,” Shah claimed to be on the date. “I sent you a location and if that doesn’t work for you, it’s it.”

She ignored the mysterious man: “Because what kind of red flag is it?” She clarified that the “red flag part” of his action was “no choice for the choice of where to meet”, not that he disagrees with her advice.

“That’s how to date online, friends. That’s why I took a break from a date and it seems I’d be going to take a longer break,” she explained.

“If you don’t add value to my life, I’d rather stay single. I’m old school and really would rather meet someone in person.”

Her posts keep nerves with some qualified bachelors who call her “antifiable” and “qualified” while others praise her intuition.

“Women want a man who can lead. Someone who can make plans,” one critic laughed. “If you want to choose where you go, you should make plans. Instead, when you show him that he plans to date, you will judge where he chooses, not even give it a chance and trust his judgment, it’s all about everything you want. Redflag.”

“He sounds like a rinse, but you also sound annoying, so maybe it’s actually a good match,” Snark added.

“Well, if I’m going to pay…we’re going to go where I decided.” “If you’re going to pay, let’s go where you decide…I respect his decision.”

Others commented: “I drove 30 miles to date in her hometown so she felt easier than driving to drive.” “If a person isn’t meeting you at a better ice cream spot, tell you everything you need to know.”

“People who respond to her that she is a qualified child…If your daughter feels the area is unsafe and there is no comfortable dessert on her first date? Have a friend’s daughter,” one wrote.

“Girl, if a man sticks to a 3.4 star dating location, you already know he will be a 1.2 star boyfriend,” another said.

“He is looking for someone to push easily,” commented a woman with high attention. “EW EW.”

Another said, “There is nothing like a man who doesn’t want you to feel safe on a date.”