Poisonous stepmother tries to destroy the engagement of stepson

You often believe that the family should always come back – but unfortunately for a newly engaged guy, his stepmother has selfish intentions when he tries to ruin one of the happiest days of his life.

General Zer vented his recent plight by venting his recent plight by the R/AITA forum on Reddit (which has since been cancelled), and his father’s wife thinks her son is a better match for the OP’s fiancé.

That must be a head spinner.

The initial poster explains how he first met his girlfriend Cara while working at an ambulance company. “Since then, we clicked and have been good friends; then during the pandemic, I asked her to go out [on a] Dating, we’ve been together since then. ” he wrote.

In the early stages of their relationship, the OP brought his girlfriend to his father, stepmother and stepbrother – except that he was a little interested in Kara, which seemed good.

“During this time, Tom became a little annoying, crossing my apartment more frequently and texting Kara frequently,” the 24-year-old wrote.

This is when things are really strange: “My stepmother asked Tom if he was [the stepbrother] Can move in with us…we had an extra bedroom in the house and it was a room. ” he wrote.

From there, the lines cross and the boundaries are overwhelmed – Tom begins to insert himself into the couple’s life.

When the OP’s stepmother found out that he was proposing to Cara, she was not handling the message well and tried to do everything she could to delay the issue he popped up – and then she did something incredible by sending very adventurous text.

“[Karen] Blow up my phone and say how I should do this to Tom! ! ! He talked about his stepmother telling him: “Tom fell in love with Cara, she was his only one. ”

He recalled: “She called and texted now and said I could let Tom have Cara?” he recalled. His answer was clear: “Kara is a person, she is not something she wants to give, and she does not belong to anyone.”

Talk about a situation.

Commenter’s advice.

“You need to have contact with Karen that is so low that you don’t have contact with Tom. They both have something to do. It’s not your responsibility to worry about your father’s job. He will make his own decision.”

“I have a feeling that you describe Karen is addicted to Tom and encourages his unhealthy obsession with an unavailable woman.”

“Get restriction order.”

This is not some kind of mother’s first attempt to disrupt a relationship.

A frustrated woman wrote to her dear Dear Abby asking for advice on how to deal with her toxic mother-in-law, whose marriage puts the marriage at risk.

“For 17 years, she essentially stabbed me. At the request of my husband, I forgive her every time. I love him, but I already realize he always stands by her. In his eyes, she wouldn’t do anything wrong,” she wrote.

“Six years ago we had a problem with her spanking. I asked to meet in a neutral location to discuss it, but she and my husband’s stepfather refused. To resolve this, I agreed to meet at their home: if there was a debate, my husband and I would leave. We even drove separately.”

“The most important thing is that my husband and his mother have been putting ideas into one of our children’s minds and now he tells me that I’m making everything awkward and I should solve the problem.”