Please help: finding a remote-controlled, vibrating buttplug…

Hi.

Me and my wife enjoy stimulating my prostate and one of the greatest disappointments of my life (okay, I’m exaggerating a little) is that we can’t find a prostate massager that we can use discreetly when out and about.

We have the Lovense Hush plugs, which are great, but they do very little to nothing to my prostate. We love the remote control, the vibrations, and still use it regularly, but it’s more about fullness and naughtiness, not stimulation.

We also have the Lovense Edge (1 & 2), which can go direct on the prostate, but I can’t hold them in – the base is too heavy, the bulb is not big enough. It slides out of me. I can only use it when lying down or sitting down (on a soft surface).

We also have a couple of “normal” buttplugs that don’t vibrate and are well shaped for prostate but they just “touch it” and they are only really stimulating when we first put them in and then sometimes when I sit down. The best one is very Aneros-shaped, just thicker (about 3cm inch, much like our Hush)

Generally finding a long term wearable plug that is of a bigger size but also angled towards the prostate seems extremely difficult.

So I’m looking for something with the flared base of a Hush, but with the bulb angled towards the prostate. I looked at the We-Vibe Ditto, but that doesn’t seem pronounced (looks like a Hush but with one side flat), it’s also too small. The We-Vibe Vector then looks a bit better, but the base doesn’t look comfortable to sit on / might be too heavy. Feels like if I were walking around with it, it would fall out – the base seems HUGE and the bulb isn’t big enough not to just slide out.

Basically:

– Around 3 cm thickest point (those are comfy and stay inside)

– Flared base (nothing round, I find those unsafe), small enough to sit on, big enough to stay very safe

– Vibrating, remote controller is a must. Mobile app is a huge plus, but not necessary.

– Prostate stimulation shaped, like an Aneros or a Lovense Edge

– Price is not really an issue (well I’m probably not gonna be able to get one custom made)

I know these are very specific and perhaps one like that doesn’t exist. But that’s why after a many tries and so much Googling, I am coming to you. Any advice is appreciated!

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