NJ complains that they can’t land love – because new

He lives near Montclair, but is next to the New York Lady – maybe another time zone.

A new jersey was frustrated by his local date scene and went to Reddit to discuss his dating difficulties.

He explained that most of his competition on the dating app came from women in New York City, who he suspected often turned him down because of his location.

“Once they found out I was in the jersey, a lot of people lost interest,” he complained. “Someone even said directly, ‘Oh, are you in the jersey?’ Just like I live in another country or another.”

Redditor them Willing.

The problem is, they are not usually.

Jessica, a 24-year-old living in Crown Heights, told Post that she often waved on New Jersey people she encountered on the app. “It’s too far,” she said.

She is not alone. Hundreds of women at Reddit outpost are struggling to provide a much-needed reality check for the reality of the New York dating scene.

“People hardly want to go to the community to build relationships, let alone another state,” one commentator said.

“No one wants a ‘long-distance’ relationship, especially when so many qualified people take the subway or walk away,” another agreed.

“When I first moved to New York, I lived in Washington Heights,” another single that was still set.

“I made the mistake of dating in Bay Ridge. Never again. The return metro trip took me longer than I had to drive between Baltimore and Philadelphia. From that moment on, I’ve maintained a 5 subway dating limit.”

One woman said, “I’m not going to New Jersey. It’s not ‘ew, Jersey’s thing, it’s logistics thing.”

Countless commenters also added that for many women, hiking to New Jersey means public transportation, which can sometimes be dangerous or emotionally exhausted.

While some New Jerseyers like this romantic Redditor face what he calls “geographic filtering,” aka women rejecting over-talk shows matches, while others find a way to win and see their dates in the middle — there is no doubt that they are still dating New Yorkers.

The post has been contacted with the original Redditor for comment.

Vinayak, a 24-year-old from Paramus who is currently dating a New Yorker, told The Post that initially, he was cautious, simply because of the time, cost and energy associated with traveling to the city.

“At first dates were worried in New York, because I also felt that people in New York were more judged when they were dating in and around New York City, especially in Jersey, and I knew, I was more alert, I was more alert, I was more alert,” he said.

“The promise of time in New York has certainly stopped me from meeting other people before.”

New jersey added that when he first dated his current girlfriend who lived in Yonkers at the time, they often met in the middle of Manhattan, so they each faced a commute of hours – picking your poison, North train or port permission restricted bus?

“I always do it for the right people, I always do it for the right people, but I know if anyone wants to look at them more directly nearby.” A jersey girl also lamented, and she also lamented the expensive, unpredictable nature of traffic on trains, buses and the George Washington Bridge.

“Unfortunately, I think Jersey’s reputation is the same as the green text from Android phones. There’s nothing wrong with that, sometimes, some parts of NJ commute faster than others in New York, but that’s just without the shaking shadows,” wrote one wise commenter.

“I think the problem has always been mileage. It’s the mentality,” said the New Jersey lover, standing there at the same time.