Navigate the boundaries of sexuality with love and patience

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At the beginning of this year, I suggest you respect your wife by letting go of your sexual preferences. I said if you want a few things she keeps rejecting, you should stop asking for them. I suggest your wife is more important than those sexual behaviors.

Then someone asked, “What if she had a lot of things that she didn’t like?”

I assume it’s about a wife who is willing to have sex, but there are only a few things. Therefore, this question is boring, not rejection.

It’s easy to say that some men will give anything that is boring with sex regularly, but I realize that it won’t make anyone feel better.

The problem is pushing such a woman more, which will turn her off. She is doing something that works for her. Other things are also a problem, either because they don’t get her attention, to turn her off, or in her mind they can’t accept it.

My advice is to become very skilled. And thank her regularly for serving you. Give her some time to make you feel safe in what you are doing now. Then it is suggested to come up with something online at the moment. Don’t ask, just say _____ can be fun sometimes.

This is the best way to do more. There is no guarantee, but if you can be loving and patient, then you will eventually move the needle.

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