My first toy was a disappointment and now I’m doubting…

Hi. I bought this [wand](Because in my country it can only be sold as a “massager” label like many other toys. I have been using it for three days and have not been able to orgasm at all! I always orgasm when I press my clit with my fingers. I really had high hopes because I have just started exploring myself and even though I am almost 30, I am now unsure if any toy can give me the same wonderful sensations I usually get when using toys! I was planning to buy a clit sucking toy but I fell into a pit of doubt because even if I can buy them in my country, they are expensive. So please help me, 1) Is a clit sucking toy really worth the money? Can I expect to have a clear orgasm from it? (I understand that everyone is different, but for someone with little experience and very desperate, I need it) 2) Any suggestions on how to make the wand useful? The wand did give me some sensations but the disappointment of not having my expectations met and the frustration of not being able to come to a conclusion with it has me worried. Please give me some advice. TIA

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