Good news, folks: Mercury retrograde doesn’t have to be boring…or it can be in all the right ways.
Leah Levi, a psychologist and resident sex expert at inclusive and open dating app Flure, is on deck, waist Explains how to harness the energy of Mercury retrograde in Sagittarius to add restorative energy to your boudoir play.
Because the last Mercury retrograde of the year occurs in the adventurous, freedom-loving sign of Sagittarius, there’s a lot of potential for interesting experiments.
However, as Levi explains, with Mercury retrograde in this sign, there is also the “danger of over-commitment, false optimism, and unrealistic expectations—a recipe for sexual disaster.”rs! “
To make sure you’re excited rather than oppressed this season, Levi shares six sex-positive ways to make the most of the moment.
Read on to learn more.
Relive an ancient fantasy
Retrograde activates everything prefixed with “re”: revisit, reflect, resubmit, revise, reconnect, renew, reimagine.
Whether physical or kinky, this transit is an excellent time to return to past fantasies or rekindle dormant areas of sensual expression.
“Mercury retrograde is all about looking back. Use it as an opportunity to reconnect with sexual fantasies you’ve always been curious about but never explored,” suggests Levy. “Sagittarius energy encourages boldness, so whether it’s role play, trying new toys, or experimenting with dominance and submission, now is the time to reflect and act (cautiously).”
Pay attention to foreplay
While Sagittarius energy embraces the thrill of the chase, the retrograde period beckons us to slow down and take our time—especially when it comes to intimacy.
As Levi says, “Spend an evening of extended foreplay—massage, sexy teasing, even dirty talk. This can rekindle passion with a partner or make solo sessions more focused and fulfilling.”
Laughing in the bedroom
“Mercury retrograde is notorious for missteps—embrace them! Sagittarius thrives on humor, so if something goes wrong (an awkward pose, a toy accident, or stammering while sexting), laugh it off,” says Levy. “Sharing these moments can deepen intimacy and remind you that sex doesn’t have to be perfect to be satisfying.”
Happiness is imperfect! Sex is hilarious! Guys, lean in and laugh as hard as you can.
Try sexting or phone sex
Mercury rules communication, and while Mercury retrograde may disrupt/fumble/exacerbate human connections, digital intimacy can be a direct path to passion.
Levy urges: “Use sexting or phone sex to explore sexual fantasies or build sexual tension. Just proofread your text before hitting send (Mercury can play tricks on autocorrect!).”
Also, double-check that the recipient of your fantasies or tasteful nudes is indeed a crush or partner and not a co-worker or blood relative.
Unless shame is your quirk – look at you, Catholic.
Try something adventurous – but keep it simple
“Sagittarius energy craves novelty, so consider exploring new locations, locations or technologies,” says Levy. “However, avoid anything too complicated or risky, which could lead to miscommunication or accidents (for example, a complicated restraint setup or an overly ambitious outdoor adventure).”
Re-evaluate your availability
Retrograde is a time of reflection, and Sagittarius—ruled by big-stakes, big-life Jupiter—encourages us to live without limits and become curious about the ever-changing landscape of our own desires.
Levy recommends using this time to explore what really gets your blood pumping—whether that’s by journaling your fantasies, experimenting alone, or having honest conversations with your partner.
This kind of erotic introspection can lead to deeper (pun intended), more authentic sexual satisfaction.
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