Love and Lust with an Aquarius | Aldult Toys Blog

No matter how often you gaze up at the night sky, and whether your view is starry or not, those illuminated pinpricks in the vastness are there, a vital source of knowledge to be tapped. When it comes to love and desire, we could all use a little cosmic wisdom to help us along. While it’s true that countless factors determine our sensual and romantic destinies, students of the stars are bound to benefit from an immersive source of understanding—should they choose to tap into it.

Let’s look at Aquarians, shall we? Born under the sign of Aquarius, between January 20 and February 18, these free-spirited and eccentric lovers are nevertheless air signs, which is entirely appropriate. If you are in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with one of these airy girls, you might benefit from a chance to gain a deeper understanding of them. You know, find out what puts the wind beneath their wings?

Here I bring you some of the sexiest and most scintillating traits associated with your Aquarius love:

Distant…but incredibly perverse

Aquarians like to appear nonchalant, cool, and collected in bed, which can make them seem aloof or detached. That said, they are generally very good at getting laid and extremely open-minded. To protect themselves and stay in control, they keep their passion somewhat contained. However, this doesn’t stop them from being the kinkiest of all the zodiac signs, hands down. Despite their cold exterior, Aquarians are extremely horny dogs.

If you’re looking to indulge your darkest and most daring fantasies, Aquarius might be the perfect partner for you. When exploring the world of roleplay, Aquarians prefer the cuckolding fantasy, which is perfect for anyone looking to experiment with a third party. Many Aquarians are also particularly drawn to anal sex (which makes sense considering they’re ruled by Uranus, ahem). They tend to be drawn to complex, hyper-intense sensations, as well as social stigma. In short, taboos turn them on.

Overthinkers…but ultra-receptive

Just as they tend to over-intellectualize many things in life, Aquarians tend to overthink everything erotic. Despite their reserve, as an air sign, they need communication and enjoy discussing concepts, ideas, and opinions in order to open their hearts to someone special. But Aquarians’ propensity to overthink doesn’t narrow their dating pool in the slightest—quite the opposite. On the contrary, they see potential in love interests that others overlook. Race, class, age, gender, and sexuality are no barriers to love here. They are especially drawn to those who are quirky or weird. Prominent scars or lost limbs probably won’t faze them.

If you really enjoy thinking and spending sleepless nights discussing your thoughts, ideas, and clever plans, you might be a great match. Plus, if you tend to shy away from society’s preconceived notions of what’s attractive and what’s not, you probably already have a lot to talk about. The stars are the limit for intoxicating lovers like you. Don’t be afraid to show off your big, beautiful brain.

Not romantic…but ready to communicate

While Aquarians are very open-minded and make great sex partners, they are very independent and tend to shy away from sentimentality, as they don’t like to express their affection directly. It’s pretty rare for an Aquarius to say “I love you” during sex, for example. If they do, you know it’s really real. While they sometimes view sex as a means to an end, when they’re seriously involved, they tend to use it as a communication tool. As such, they’re pretty good at anticipating your needs, “nam” you say? Be careful though: when it comes to romance, don’t be surprised if your Aquarius would rather live with you than (ever) get married. After all, they’re also the sign most likely to shun tradition.

If you’re looking for old-fashioned romance and a partner who will make you feel extra special with hearts and chocolate, a typical Aquarius may not be the one for you. Better yet, if the concept of marriage seems outdated to you and you consider “living together” to be as respectable a goal as any other, you’re ready to call an Aquarius. very Aquarians are usually attracted to partners who are warm, generous, passionate, and willing to give them lots of attention, all the time. They aren’t afraid of a little drama and excitement, and if you’re a good match, you probably won’t be either.

Experimental…but faithful (sometimes)

Ruled by Uranus, the planet of experimentation, Aquarius craves a lot of sexual variety and is often drawn to unique romantic relationships. Unsurprisingly, many seek sexual freedom and non-exclusive arrangements. When dating casually, it’s not uncommon for them to have two or more lovers at the same time. Even in more serious relationships, many Aquarians like to keep their options open. But while some Aquarians don’t really understand the concept of fidelity, as a fixed sign, they can be incredibly loyal and monogamous when they want to be. If they’re ready to settle down, they tend to be incredibly invested.

A sexual relationship with an Aquarius usually needs to be kept fresh and alive at all times. If you’re a good match, it turns you on to the max. If you’ve been dreaming of finding a semi-detached setting that involves quality time together as well as apart (or with others), you’d better find yourself an Aquarius, now. That old adage, “absence makes the heart grow fonder,” has never been truer than when it comes to Aquarius. Avoid smothering him at all costs, as this will make him pack up. That said, don’t play games that hurt your heart either. If your Aquarius’ needs don’t match yours, it may be time to reevaluate the relationship.

Bottom line: It takes intellectual stamina and sexual daring to keep up with this air sign, but if you’re up for the challenge, sex with an Aquarius could be the most fun you’ve ever had. And where there’s a real connection, you’re sure to discover deeper mind-body connections with your Aquarius partner.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does Aquarius better than Gemini and Libra, with honorable mentions going to Sagittarius and Aries, but no matter your sign, lustful love conquers all, so if it’s worth it, you’ll be the first to know! <3