Love and Lust with a Scorpio | Aldult Toys Blog

Most of us need to look at the stars in the night sky much more often than we do because we’re too busy staring at the road or checking out our new shoes. up Turning to the stars more often can provide us with a much-needed shift in perspective, one that only these brilliant celestial bodies can provide. By connecting with the deep wisdom of the galaxy, we humble humans can learn a thing or ten. And when it comes to desire and love, the Goddess knows we could all use some guidance. That’s an understatement, right? While no one is limited by the dictates of their astrological nature, it never hurts to learn from certain cosmic patterns that have been studied since before we were born.

Take this enigmatic and nervous Scorpio born under the sign of Scorpio, between October 23 and November 22. If you’re sleeping with one, and/or in a relationship with one, why not take advantage of every opportunity to understand more deeply what it means to be a man? Really excites them; how to enchant them; and the best way to blow their minds?

Here I bring you some of the most scintillating and sensual traits belonging to your Scorpio lover:

Sexual fire…and ice

Each sign has a body part or region, and Scorpio rules the genitals. This is fitting, as Scorpios may deserve their reputation as the sexiest and most masterful sign of the zodiac. Scorpio sex is on a whole other level, as passionate intensity is totally their thing. They have a relentlessly powerful libido, are incredibly sexually gifted, and love to take creative control. They are always exploring new ways to find pleasure for themselves and for you. That said, if a Scorpio gets angry with you, they may choose to express it by withdrawing sex—and affection—instead of talking it out with you.

First of all, if you’re in a relationship with a Scorpio, do your best to reciprocate in bed. A Scorpio partner can have a sixth sense about what you want and need, so do your best to tune in to them. They’ll likely ask you a lot of intimate questions, making it their solemn duty to help you achieve a mind-blowing orgasm. Invest the same care and attention in them, and you can’t go wrong. This works best when you’re feeling passionate, of course. When dating a Scorpio, it also helps to have strong communication skills—after all, someone has to initiate make-up sex, right?

Experimental, all-consuming sex…if you can handle it

Known for being total freaks in the sheets, Scorpios bring new meaning to open-mindedness. Always open to experimentation and doubly open to having a life-changing experience, they’ll never judge or shame you for wanting to try something strange or new, even if it’s not their thing. That said, chances are they’ve tried it before, or at least vividly imagined it. For some, a Scorpio’s sex drive can actually be overwhelming, especially if they’re so hot that foreplay is an afterthought. It can also be difficult to be in a long-term relationship with someone who wants every sexual encounter to be life-changing.

Keep your Scorpio happy and sexually engaged by expressing your fantasies as they arise, and revel in the fact that you’re with someone who can handle them, and even make them come true for you. If you’re a good match, you two will reach new heights, I guarantee it. If he caresses you every night but you have to work early or just need a break, set aside some sexy time on the weekend to explore new areas together. You can also teach him the art of the quickie, and quick doesn’t necessarily mean less delicious.

A total love… but a little obsessive

Mysterious and emotional, when a Scorpio truly falls for you, nothing is off limits. When a Scorpio cares about you, he wants to know All They want to help you heal your deepest wounds, the ones you’ve never talked about with anyone. Scorpios live to help you face your ugliest inner demons. That said, if they don’t reciprocate, they can become quite obsessive. I heard somewhere that Scorpio is the sign most associated with demonic possession and serial killers (Happy Halloween). However, it’s more likely that a Scorpio is simply trying to manipulate you into wanting to end it all and that they want you to stay.

When courting a Scorpio, don’t bother going down the path of light, bubbly chitchat. That’ll only bore him. Feel free to explore deeper topics: you know, politics, creative endeavors, emotional mazes, haunted houses, etc. And, if the time comes to end your relationship with your Scorpio, whatever you do, avoid cheating. When a Scorpio finds out that his partner has betrayed him in this way, he will not hesitate to launch a smear campaign, whether it is with mutual friends or even co-workers. It’s a dirty story. So if you want to put an end to it, stay honest.

Ixnay on casual sex…or kiss and tell

Unsurprisingly, Scorpios aren’t laid back and don’t usually go for one-night stands or friends with benefits relationships. When a Scorpio chooses you, they really choose you. As much as Scorpios love sex, a casual, non-exclusive arrangement doesn’t work for them, no matter how hard they try. Chances are, they’ll become too obsessive, or You (because they’re really cool). In keeping with their seriousness when it comes to matters of the heart and body, Scorpios are fiercely reserved and never let themselves go. Plus, they usually expect the same discretion from you.

If you’re a polyamorous person or have a deep need to keep it casual, Scorpio may not be the right fit for you. It’s always best to have a conversation about your desires and expectations up front, to avoid getting hurt later. Also, if you’re the type who likes to spill the beans about your sex life to those around you, find a way to not do it, or make sure it’s discreet. Or, better yet, talk to your lover about the importance of conversations between close friends. I get that it’s not always easy.

Hugs…but not always clear communicators

Scorpios are the epitome of sex, as we’ve already established. That said, they can be picky about who they let in and don’t always want to commit, especially if they’re still getting to know you. They don’t trust easily, so if they do let you in, chances are they 100% want to feel safe and confident. detained after. Whether he says it directly or not, your Scorpio wants to cuddle and whisper sweet nothings after you explode into each other.

If you’re serious about your Scorpio, don’t take his intimacy for granted. If he lets you break through his defenses, he’s very interested in you, but it’s only with reciprocity that it will remain a delightfully positive experience. If you’re not sure how to behave after sex and your Scorpio lover doesn’t say much, try cuddling him and blowing hotly in his ear. Thank me later.

Bottom line: Treat your deep, dark Scorpio like the hidden treasure it is, and the rest will come. Where there is a true connection, you are sure to discover a deep mental, emotional, and sexual connection. Mind-body connection with your Scorpio partner. Understand it.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does better than water sign Scorpio, Cancer and Pisces, as well as earth signs Virgo and Capricorn. But whatever your sign, remember: vigorous love conquers all, so if it’s worth it, nurture it and it will grow. <3