Love and Lust with a Gemini | Aldult Toys Blog

The stars are shining sources for all who wish to share their unbridled wisdom. And the Goddess knows that in the realm of love and lust, we could all benefit from a bright, guiding light from time to time. While no life path is set in stone, the natural lights that hover constantly above our earthly existence can offer valuable insight into ourselves and those we love or desire—if we are open to them.

Gemini season is upon us. These Gemini natives (around May 21 to June 21) are lovers of spontaneity and communication. But they often have two sides: one public and one private, which makes them seem enigmatic at best, or cold and hot at worst. If you’re in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with one of these creative, two-minded types, you’d definitely benefit from a chance to better understand where they’re coming from and where they’re going. You know, find out what unifies their thinking.

Here I bring you some of the most beautifully alluring traits associated with your Gemini lover:

Adventurer…with a little taste for drama

Those born under the sign of the twins tend to be outgoing, flexible, and adventurous, both in life and in bed. When it comes to love, adventure is a must for Gemini. This airy animal lives for wit-based seduction with a giant dose of flirting…and smooth communication, too. Geminis view love as an exploration above all else. They thrive on enthusiastic, playful, and even wild sex, often considering it their favorite recreational activity. Gemini loves quality quickies, spontaneous sex in unexpected (public?) places and experiment with new positions and techniques.

If your love interest is a Gemini, know that they tend to be drawn to potential partners who are adventurous, spontaneous, free-spirited, and have a wild or quirky side. Additionally, Geminis are natural intellectuals who seek an opinionated partner who inspires debate and/or stirs up a little spice or drama to keep them working for it. If all of this sounds like you and you pride yourself on your ability to keep your lover on their toes, Gemini may be your perfect match.

Playful…and not so serious

When it comes to Gemini, sex is always They are supposed to be fun. They don’t need erotic escapades to get so emotional; intimacy and attachment aren’t really crucial parts of romance for them. In fact, many Geminis think emotional connections are a bit overrated. Since they get bored easily, they are also more likely to have flings than to commit to serious relationships, let alone monogamy. can Single Geminis like to be happy in a long-term commitment, but only if their partner can keep up with them, sexually and intellectually, to begin with. While single Geminis like to play the field, they appreciate consistency in a relationship, and the right partnership is sure to temper that wandering gaze.

If you’re a creative, playful soul who believes that lightness and a sense of humor are essential in a partner, you’re probably a good match. Geminis crave sex that makes them laugh and stimulates their experimental side. They’re very creative, so it’s no surprise that they enjoy role-playing. They find light, playful contact arousing and tend to avoid pleasure in pain, so BDSM enthusiasts need not apply. And, overall, they want someone who’s more interested in the seductive journey than the destination.

Quick-witted communicators…but too intellectual

Geminis love a myriad of forms of mental stimulation and tend to operate at a fast pace. Due to their high intelligence, they can become overly analytical. For their active minds, thinking about sex is sometimes better than actually doing it – they are superbly harnessed in fantasy. For the talkative Gemini, sensuality often starts out intellectual, as they enjoy playing with potential partners using words. Their vivid imagination also means that they are likely to enjoy watching porn on a regular basis. That said, they will certainly ditch the screen to spend time with a willing partner.

If you’re dating a Gemini, you’ll need to keep a cool head. Geminis are most stimulated and attracted to the intellect of potential partners. They enjoy all forms of conversation, so if you’re not a fan of using your words, you may not be the right fit for them. To win your Gemini’s heart, you’ll need to embrace your flirty communication skills, opening yourself up to all the possibilities of sexting, naughty letters, and dirty talk in the heat of the moment. In fact, Geminis who are avid communicators are all They love mouths, so they love kissing, smooching, and oral sex (giving and receiving). Really, Geminis love anything that has to do with the mouth and tongue…so use this information as you see fit.

Adaptable… but indecisive

Gemini is a mutable sign, which means they’re flexible creatures by nature. They tend to enjoy changing sexual positions, changing environments, and changing partners frequently. That said, they’re just as willing to give in to your whims as they are to their own. Geminis are easygoing and willing to go with the flow. They don’t mind a little chaos. That being said, their analytical yet adaptable nature can make them anxious about making big decisions, especially big ones like moving, changing careers, or committing to a partner (did I mention that already?).

Since Geminis are very flexible and prone to change their minds quite suddenly, partners who have a similar willingness to go with the flow are best suited for these twin-hearted lovers. There is no need to push a Gemini to be bold, as they are truly willing to try anything at least once. Don’t be afraid to suggest a crazy plan, be it sexual or otherwise, as they will gladly accept it in most cases. Not to mention that canceled plans will not ruin their day or their mood, only their mood. You know if this fact evokes a deep “yes” or a “no” deep in your heart!

Bottom line: It takes an openness to spontaneous pleasure, constant communication, and changes of plans to keep up with this noble and vigorous air sign, but if you’re up for the ride, love and sex with a Gemini could be the time of your life. Where there’s a true connection, you’re sure to reveal deeper bonds of body, heart, and mind with your willing Gemini partner.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does it better than Aries and Leo in Gemini, with honorable mentions going to Libra and Aquarius, but no matter what your sign, strong love conquers all, so if it’s worth it, you’ll be the first to know! <3