Love and Desire with an Aries | Aldult Toys Blog

We modern beings do not look up We stare straight ahead, often forgetting those tiny points of light that illuminate the darkness above our heads. The stars are a source of vital information available to all, if we want it. It is no news that when it comes to desire and love, we could all use a light to guide us through the shadows. Willing students of the celestial sky are required to learn a truth or ten about their lovers by delving into the cosmic truth that surrounds us all.

Consider Aries, born under the unwavering fire sign of the ram, between March 21 and April 19. The symbol for Aries is, fittingly, a sheep with large, curved horns, and they are considered the warriors of the zodiac. Bold and courageous in love, these vigorous creatures are an endless source of unbridled energy. If you are in a sexual and/or romantic relationship with one, you may benefit from a chance to better understand their personality. You know, discover what makes their fire roar?

Here I bring you some of the spiciest and sassy traits associated with your Aries love:

Fiery romantics… but very impulsive

Aries are passionate givers and receivers of love and desire. Charged with eroticism, aggressive and direct in their desire, they tend to show you directly when they want you, without delay. Rightfully so, Aries have a reputation for being very spontaneous when it comes to sex. After all, they are the sign most likely to have sex on a first date, without notice or in the most random situations. Sex on a photocopier, anyone? In other words, self-control is not an Aries strong suit. The downside is that impulsive Aries are also known for falling in and out of love quickly.

If you sleep with (and/or love) an Aries, you have to understand that they respond very positively to a partner who is bold, direct, honest, and romantic to boot. Ruled by Mars, Aries brings a youthful exuberance to everything around them. Love should be amusing For them, they look for partners with a great sense of humor who make love a playful moment, but without sacrificing the romantic side. If it doesn’t feel right to them, Aries will usually not hesitate to move on quickly.

They like challenges…or conquests

Aries has an undeniable predatory side that makes them want to hunt. They love a challenge, and more specifically, they love to pursue the one who has caught their interest—or their heart. In other words, they want someone they have to jump through rings of fire to reach. This is what gets their juices flowing and gives them their reputation as one of the hottest lovers in the zodiac. A natural warrior type, their goal is to conquer their lover with their remarkable powers of seduction, earning their affection in the process. If being the object of (consensual, always consensual) conquest turns you off, you may not be right for your Aries lover.

Dating an Aries is no excuse to play hard to get if it’s something that doesn’t work out. your There is nothing worse than wanting someone, but repressing your own desire to feed theirs. Feel free to play whatever games turn you both on, but don’t switch to an Aries or any other sign! On the other hand, if playing the prey game really gets you turned on, just try not to keep going forever, because your impulsive Aries might just lose interest and start chasing someone else. True story.

Dominant…but not very into foreplay

Fun fact: A slap in the face only strengthens an Aries’ resolve. I only mention this in case you and your Aries might be planning a mutually consensual and kinky encounter. Aries always wants to be on top, in every way. As natural initiators, playful fighting and dominance and submission games are at the top of their list of fantasies and preferences. That being said, foreplay is usually not their strong suit. They prefer instant orgasms to long sensual sessions. Aries’ overdeveloped sense of urgency translates into a desire to reach orgasm quickly, without much thought for the before and after. However, given their unmatched energy reserves, most Aries want to have sex very frequently, which may or may not negate the brevity factor.

If all this doesn’t sound particularly romantic or sexy to you, know that your horny Aries probably won’t agree. He sees love as a series of quick bursts of passion, and sex is always on his mind. If you enjoy playing the submissive in bed and love a little roughness between the sheets, chances are you’re a pretty good match. If you’re not into that sort of thing, your compatibility may not extend very far. While Aries’ natural aggression can sometimes be excessive, it’s also the source of his uncontrollable libido. Therein lies the paradox, my friends.

They prefer to be coupled…but I love playing on the field

Aries often prefer companionship to the single life. But they sometimes have a hard time staying faithful. Maybe it has something to do with their electric libidos and insatiable appetites, you know? If you’re casually dating an Aries, chances are he’s enthusiastically playing the field, bedpost notches and all. If, on the other hand, you’re in a committed relationship with your Aries, he’s much less likely to cheat on you. If he does, it’s much more likely to be a quickie than a full-blown affair. Comforting, right?

If you’re convinced you have a real relationship with your Aries, be kind, charming, adventurous, and pleasure-seeking. They won’t be able to resist. Aries wants a partner who puts bold and sincere effort into a relationship. If you have trouble showing intimacy or standing up for yourself, this may not be the best fit. Plus, Aries tends to gravitate toward partners who are a little more balanced than they are, as a way to cool their fire just enough tofocus on one person.

Bottom line: It takes a lot to keep up with this very hot fire sign, but if you’re up for the spiciest challenges, sex and love with an Aries could be the antidote to monotony you’ve been looking for your entire life.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does better with Aries than Leo or Sagittarius, with honorable mentions going to Gemini and Aquarius. Plus, Aries is very sexually compatible with their opposite sign, Libra. But no matter what sign you are, remember: if it’s worth it, strong love conquers all! <3