Love and Desire with a Libra | Aldult Toys Blog

These luminous portals of unceasing light that hold space in the night sky are a source of wisdom for us human animals, should we choose to acknowledge them. The Goddess knows that when it comes to desire and love, we could all use a little guidance. And while no one is limited by the dictates of their astrological identity, there is a source of illuminating insight to be gathered for starry-eyed lovers of learning.

Take those so-called Libras born under the air sign of Libra, between September 23 and October 22. If you’re in a relationship with one of them, why not take every opportunity to better understand what they’re passionate about, how to get their full attention, and the best way to blow their minds and rock their world?

Here are some of the most remarkably naughty traits belonging to your Libra lover:

Romantic…and sometimes codependent

Libras are true hopeless romantics who make it their mission in life to find their better half. Libras are ruled by Venus, which means they won’t hesitate to dive headfirst into a relationship or marriage if they think they’ve found their “soul mate.” They simply find life more fulfilling when shared with a partner. Because of this tendency, however, some Libras are a bit defensive. co-dependent side, and sometimes they give more than they receive.

If your partner is a Libra, be romantic in bed. In other words, long, affectionate foreplay is their cup of tea, so don’t skimp on close kisses, sensual touches, or erotic sensations. They won’t be able to resist such behavior. Libras also enjoy romantic walks in nature and spontaneous sexual adventures, so you’d do well to imagine a scenario that combines both. If you’ve ever been told that you have a dramatic side, there’s no point hiding it from your Libra. While they ultimately crave harmony, they’re also drawn to a little drama, as long as there’s a resolution that leads to deeper romantic intimacy.

Harmony…at the expense of clarity

Libras are known for their charisma and good manners, although this sometimes comes at the expense of honesty and directness. Your typical Libra would rather maintain peace and harmony (at least on the surface) than appear rude. This can lead them to a classically indecisive demeanor, where they weigh issues forever without being able to come up with an answer. Therefore, figuring out where you stand with your Libra love interest or what they want sexually can sometimes be confusing.

If you’re living with a Libra who has a soul in tune, strong communication skills are a major asset. No one says you have to be the one analyzing things and doing all the emotional work, but having the ability to cut through the clutter (so to speak) and get to the heart of a given issue can go a long way in deepening your connection with a Libra.

Perverse…within reason

Libras can easily swing between passive and dominant behavior in bed. They’re not against role-playing, as long as you don’t overdo it (they’ll find manipulative mind games very off-putting). But a little hair-pulling, a spanking, a pinch of dirty talk: that kind of mild kinkiness is perfectly acceptable. They like a bit of rough play, but any real aggression is too much. Libras don’t tend to enjoy rough play.

Be adventurous with your Libra in bed. There is no need to think too much with her. She likes bold and surprising sex in different positions and places. The only reason to hesitate would be if you tend to like things very rough. If that is the case, just talk to your Libra about it: her innate inner balance can help you find a harmonious compromise. In fact, talking openly about her sexual desires is one of Libra’s favorite pastimes and a great way to turn her on.

A balance between giving and receiving

Libras like to please their lovers very generously and they like reciprocity in this regard, because anything less lacks fairness and equality. But they also value a strong mental connection and good communication as much as they value sexual desire. Most Libras don’t just want a lover, but a best friend. Giving and receiving, friend and lover – like the two sides of a scale, the aspect of balance is fundamental to a Libra’s way of being.

If your love interest is a Libra, respond to her generosity by returning the pleasure she gives you. If you’re a good match, it will never feel like a chore. Whatever you do, never get so comfortable with your Libra’s great capacity for generosity that you expect her to give to you all the time, or that you don’t return her love. That’s a good way to push her away, slowly but surely. Instead, build a harmonious rhythm with your Libra, an orgasmic dance of giving and receiving that sends you both skyward.

Naturally attractive

Sometimes, Libra’s extreme indecision can lead them to commit to monogamy while craving occasional moments of intense promiscuity. They are natural seducers, which can be problematic if you’re the jealous type. Don’t let their flirtatious side give you the wrong idea, though. They are charming and friendly with almost everyone, and that usually doesn’t mean they want to sleep with the person on the receiving end. A Libra will rarely jeopardize a happy relationship by cheating… at least not physically. If they do cheat, it will most likely take the form of mental or intellectual infidelity, although this usually only happens when they feel like they’re not getting enough intellectual stimulation.

You can’t control someone else’s behavior, no matter what their zodiac sign is. That said, when you’re in love and have desires with a Libra, check in with yourself regularly so you never feel like you’ve lost touch — you know, with YouNot only is this a good way to check in on your own level of codependency, but it can also be a great way to get to the truth of a situation and help you communicate better with your partner so you don’t end up in a relationship that causes you anxiety.

In summary : Treat your romantic and flirty Libra like the treasure she is, and the rest will follow. Where there is a meaningful connection, you are sure to discover deeper connections of body and mind with your Libra partner.

When it comes to compatibility, no one does Libra better than Aries, Gemini, and Aquarius, with honorable mentions going to Leo and Sagittarius, but no matter your sign, lustful love conquers all, so if it’s worth it, you’ll be the first to know!