Logical Bridesmaids Skip Expensive Bachelor Party- But

What did she ask?

Today, the cost of attending a bachelor party is out of control – forcing many to surrender.

A group of bridesmaids refused to be part of the international celebration of the brides – but still paid by the maid who enjoyed the women.

A frustrated woman brought to Reddit’s R/Weddingdrama Subreddit, describing the kimchi she’s in and seeking advice from the Reddit community.

“A few months ago, the Honor Maid planned a bachelor party in another country. From the beginning, I knew I was unable to attend due to financial reasons – international travel and related expenses are not on my budget right now. Everyone was understanding at the time, or I thought.”

OP started her business and the bride took her out of the countryside bachelor party. Things got weird until the group came back.

“…A few days after the group returned to the states, the Honor Maid sent a message in the group chat, especially the only bride party members who did not participate in the trip, asking each of us to send $300 so that the bride doesn’t have to pay the share of the trip.”

The initial poster said she felt blinded – like anyone in the shoes would feel it.

She wrote: “I never agreed to make a financial contribution to something I didn’t participate in, and no one said anything about the expense of the bride split among people who are not moving forward if they had. If they had one, I would make it clear that I couldn’t afford it either.

The bridesmaid said she hasn’t answered or paid yet – not sure how to resolve this situation.

Leave it to the Reddit community and let the OP’s back.

“If this is an expectation, then all this should be communicated clearly to all bridesmaids before traveling so that people can adjust their budgets or opt out in time. For those who are not attending, you should not expect everyone to pay any portion of the bill and anything you decide to give away should be considered friendly…” wrote one commenter. ”

Another person made some suggestions to the OP: “Send a message that there is a misunderstanding, and when you say you can’t afford it financially on the road, it also includes paying anyone else to travel.”

I won’t reply to text. If questioned later, I simply said, I didn’t pay attention to it because obviously it had nothing to do with me…I don’t feel introverted or uncomfortable due to lack of planning or communication. This is the problem she wants to solve. ” others wrote.

This is not the first weird behavior of the Bride Party members.

A bridesmaid decides to skip her friend’s destination wedding – but still travels with her boyfriend due to the flight and hotel being made up.

After a girl’s trip went wrong – Bridesmaids shared in Reddit’s post that she didn’t like how the bride’s First handled this situation.

So she decided to give up on the wedding altogether.