I want to be a maid

Throughout my life I have always been willing to serve others and the word “no” is not easy for me to say. I guess I am almost like a maid who is at the mercy of others. I have always enjoyed cooking for my partner and doing the little things like making the bed, cleaning, doing the laundry and other household chores.

After I finish my services, I feel so proud to show my partner that I have made our house into a “home.” This would be embarrassing to most feminists. I have never understood why these tasks give me such a sense of accomplishment in my relationship.

My kindness is often taken advantage of.

In most cases it is taken advantage of, as most people are, in most cases a person who always says yes becomes an “easy” person to deal with, or someone that most people turn to when they need something because they always know they will say yes.

What is bondage? – Maid Order

A pleaser, a slave, a yes-man, but today I learned that in the world of BDSM this set of attributes is a fetish; bondage – it is a service-oriented submissive. It is an inner relationship BDSM Lifestyle The passive partner “serves” the dominant partner both physically and emotionally. But it’s not all about sex, these relationships may not even involve sex or romance, but instead focus on pleasing the dominant partner in any way they wish to be served.

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Some couples incorporate this game or practice into their daily lives, such as: wearing specific clothing or nothing at all to do chores, fetch drinks, plan meals or cook meals, and provide personal assistance. Many times, people dress up in costumes such as nurses and maids to more realistically reflect the service-oriented sense of obedience.

Can this be a personal assistant instead of a slave?

Yes, this is a part of the BDSM world that I can resonate with, and it surprises me. Nothing shocks me now, and I have come to appreciate and accept the different ways people express passion and desire.

I have always believed that my desire to serve and please my partner is simply my way of loving and expressing love. Unless people understand this, it can be very dangerous and harmful to the person, and to fully understand this, respect is required, and without respect, people feel like slaves and don’t understand why they are always being taken advantage of.

My previous partners have viewed these particular attributes as weaknesses in my character and would often ask me to do things I might not be willing to do, knowing full well that I would not say no to their requests and that it would not be difficult to change my decision if I did say no.

Despite what it may seem at first glance, healthy BDSM focuses on respect and boundaries.

As a non-participant BDSM Life And only dabbling in certain areas, understanding that the world is more about respect and appreciation than domination of others, makes things less scary and easier to understand.

For the outside world Bondage and Training It is completely, to some people the deeper you go the more complicated it gets but to outsiders even the art of cuffing can be scary. The biggest misconception I see when working in this industry is an uneducated person thinking that because it is portrayed a certain way it must be okay. In reality, servicing someone or having someone tie you up can be the scariest thing, to some it can be fun and to others it can be a way for them to express their sexual desires.

How do I maintain a healthy life of slavery? – Being a maid on call

When serving your partner, it should always be done in a way that does not affect your confidence or self-esteem. Allowing someone to dominate you is a huge power play and you and your partner need to understand the boundaries and respect them. You must dominate yourself first before you can serve your partner selflessly. The only satisfaction you get is how happy you make your partner and the feeling of having played a role in a job well done. This is enough to make you happy.

Express and explore your innermost thoughts

It’s been exciting to explore this lifestyle in a new light and it’s made me feel more in tune with my body and the way I express myself. I feel as though I understand the reasons why I do things the way I do them and why I feel happy after doing things my partner asks, especially when I do things that my partner doesn’t ask but that I enjoy and am proud of.

Having someone who respects you is the greatest achievement in life, especially when you are a hard person to trust. Being able to fully express yourself without fear of being hurt or taken advantage of is a right that everyone should have, and we need to respect each other more and take more time to respect ourselves.

Here are 10 tips for BDSM newbies!

What does BDSM stand for?
BDSM stands for bondage, femdom, domination, submission, sadism and masochism and is a variety of sexual preferences and practices.
Is BDSM safe?
BDSM can be safe if both parties agree and it is performed with proper communication, understanding, and use of safety protocols.
How do I set boundaries in BDSM?
Before engaging in any BDSM activity, discuss and agree upon limits, safe words, and boundaries to ensure safety and consent.
What is a safeword in BDSM?
A safeword is a pre-agreed word or signal used to immediately stop or pause a BDSM scene when needed.
How do beginners get started with BDSM?
Beginners should start with education, communication, and exploration of soft BDSM activities to understand comfort levels and boundaries.
What is aftercare in BDSM?
Aftercare involves care after the scene to help partners recover emotionally and physically, ensuring mutual comfort and support.
Can BDSM be part of a healthy relationship?
Yes, with clear communication, mutual respect, and consent, BDSM can foster intimacy and trust.
What are dominants and submissives?
In one scene, the Dominant takes the lead and the Submissive follows and obeys the Dominant’s instructions.
Does BDSM only cause pain?
No, BDSM includes a variety of activities beyond pain, such as role-playing, bondage, and domination, to suit different preferences.
Does BDSM require special equipment?
Special equipment is optional; many BDSM activities can be enjoyed with little or no equipment, depending on preference.