LDS Dating Year in Review – Co-Blog

As we say goodbye to 2025, we’re taking a deep dive into what really matters most to you this year. From texting habits to green flags, we surveyed mutual daters around the world to bring you this year’s dating statistics and insights. Together, your responses paint a picture of an LDS dating community that is optimistic and ready for real-life connections.

Want to see how this year compares to last year? View our 2024 report here.

Let’s take a look at the highlights—your 2025 dating trends, statistics, and stories:

Let’s start with a question you’ve no doubt been debating in your group chat: Would you fall in love with someone who only texts?

69% think the answer is yes, probably.

Honestly, we get it. Texting is a big part of modern dating, and sometimes the vibe manifests itself before the first date. Before you start planning a Costco membership, make sure you can feel that same spark in person.

Annual reversal plot:

89% said you would consider dating someone with the same name as your ex,

This either proves that you are very mature or that the name does not ruin a good relationship. (Even if it feels like déjà vu.) Regardless, we were impressed.

Mutual daters do this no Want to play games.

When asked how long you should wait to message someone after a first date. 96% said messages should be sent within 24 hours.

This means the era of “waiting three days” is officially over. You need clarity, confidence and a little courage, and honestly, we love you. This is the energy that every healthy relationship needs.

Not sure what to send after your first date? Read our guide on how to continue the conversation.

We asked you for that oddly specific green flag, and wow, did you deliver. You mentioned everything from the “TikTok bird trend” to “carrying snacks just in case” to “spending a lot of time with grandma” to “wanting to hold hands and enter the temple.” (Wow! )

Amid the chaos, there are four clear top Green Flag categories:

1. hobbies – You want someone who is passionate, someone who takes more than just selfies. Whether it’s a shared hobby or just something that excites them, your inclusion of personal interests is a major green flag. Don’t be afraid to show your interests because that’s where you really are!
2. family – This isn’t a shocker for a church-focused dating app: Family values ​​matter. a lot of. Being close to family, wanting to start a family, and valuing family life are top indicators that “this could be something.”
3. picture – Good photos = major green flag. You shout out about the profile with real, clear, authentic pictures that don’t contain (or ask for) anything inappropriate. But don’t get it twisted, only 4% of all responses were particularly concerned about appearance. The rest is about the story your photos tell. (Learn why your photos may be the reason people are attacking you. )
4. temple – Not surprisingly, temple involvement, temple goals, and positive referrals all rank as strong indicators of a Mormon support dater’s long-term potential.

The best part?

All four Green Flag categories can be displayed on your Mutual profile.

Interest tags are a powerful way to show off the things that matter most to you, from hobbies, interests, and personality to beliefs and values. Remember: Shared interests help spark good connections, but they aren’t the whole secret to a happy and healthy relationship. Look for common ground, but don’t be afraid to give people who are different a chance!

Want to know what the most common interests were with your crush last year?

View your Personalized 2025 Report!

You are more united on this than anything else:

Jelly: The Official “Please Don’t” for Church Stuck in 2025

The gelatin may be wobbly, but apparently it is no Inspire joy. So take note: if you see someone cute lingering in your ward for an extended period of time, you can relate through a shared dislike of the jelly salad that the bishop’s wife lovingly (and inevitably) brings.

When we look at the demographics of the Mutual app in 2025, the dating odds are at “chef’s kiss” levels.

53% male and 47% female.

That’s about 50/50 in the dating pool, which means your odds of finding someone are not only high, but they’re mathematically in your favor.

Finding your eternal companion isn’t just a Utah thing, it’s everywhere. This year, mutual daters from all over the world logged in.

Top states:

1. Utah
2. idaho
3. Arizona
4. california
5. Texas

Popular countries/regions:

1. USA
2. Brazil
3. Mexico
4. Peru
5. Colombia

We love hearing stories about couples who met on mutual insurance, whether they lived on different continents or just down the street. Read real mutual love stories on our blog!

For the third year in a row, the word you most often mention in the New Year is Full of hope.

Whether you’re looking to go on more dates, meet up with your sweetheart, or just enjoy dating again, we have hope for you, too.

Thank you for an incredible year at Mutual Aid. 2025 is funny, heartfelt, and honestly a little weird for a lot of us, but in the best way, because it’s shaped by you. Your stories, feedback, honesty, and optimism make Mutual Aid so special. We couldn’t do this without you.

Thank you for an unforgettable year.

Here’s to a better 2026.

Ready to carry that energy into 2026?

Start the new year off right with a new contest on Mutual.