She is chasing B Honey — “B’s,” as in idiots.
Liars never succeed. This adage is especially true when professional “honey catcher” Madeleine Smith is the bait.
But when the vixen isn’t busy testing a man’s fidelity at the behest of a suspicious partner, she’s sharing some tips and tricks on how to spot the signs a man is up to no good.
“Ladies, make no mistake,” Smith, of Los Angeles, wrote in the popular TikTok caption. “There is nothing wrong with taking concrete steps to protect your heart.”
Unfortunately, in today’s digital age, the opportunity to cheat on your significant other is just a few clicks away.
But Smith, a siren who makes a living sending flirtatious messages to off-market men, ensures that curious wives and girlfriends don’t have to know anything about computers to accuse their men of infidelity.
Instead, the naughty know-it-all advises women to pay close attention to any of the following eight red flags.
He hides his phone
“When you go out to dinner, or just sit on the sofa watching TV, does your man turn his phone face up or face down?” Smith asked in a column for the Daily Mail. “This may seem trivial, but ask yourself – what could possibly be going on that he doesn’t want anyone to see?”
“I think it’s bullshit when people say phones should be kept private,” she continued. “You can be whoever you want online (trust me, I’d know), and you should recognize that your partner may feel insecure about your online activities.”
Smith insisted innocent people would not hide their devices.
“If you have nothing to hide, then why do you care?” she wrote. “It means a lot to me that my fiancé was willing to share his password.”
She asserted that while a man “can’t control” whether a woman decides to message him, “he can control his reaction.”
“Take one of my ‘failed’ experiments,” Smith said. “A client asked me to test her husband, and he politely told me he was happily married. When I shared the good news with her, she said he had shown her the conversation.
“Guys, it’s that simple: Always be transparent.”
You are not in his photo
“For my pregnant client to not have a photo of her on his Instagram profile, that’s an immediate red flag,” Smith warns. “Even if he claims he never posts on social media, you should at least be in his profile picture.
“Your partner should be proud to show it off to you,” sex experts say. “If he doesn’t, it shows a lack of commitment.”
He uses Snapchat
Smith is skeptical of anyone using Chat.
“There is no good reason why men over school age should have Snapchat on their phones,” she wrote. “SnapChat – whose USP is that it deletes messages after viewing them – is an app that targets cheaters.”
“I’m only aware of it being used by adult males to send and receive explicit photos,” Smith warned. “Whatever his explanation is, if he’s a regular snapper, be careful.”
Location will not be shown
“These days, it’s normal to have your loved ones use location-sharing apps,” Smith noted. “A red flag I hear all the time is: ‘My husband’s spot always seems to close without any explanation.'”
But those who supported the poster didn’t buy it.
“Cheaters will come up with some excuse as to why they don’t want to share their location, but then insist that their girlfriend share their location,” Smith complained. “Which brings me to my next red flag…”
unequal expectations
“Liars are jealous people with fragile egos,” she asserts. “That’s pretty much why they cheat: The recognition of a woman’s love is never enough for them.”
Smith urges women not to fall into the one-sided trap of irrational rules.
“My clients often report that their partners expect them to have unrealistic boundaries with men: cutting off male friends and not even speaking to male colleagues,” she told the Daily Mail. “At the same time, he posted photos of himself with bikini-clad beauties who were just ‘friends.'”
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“If you raise concerns, does your partner call you ‘crazy’ or claim you’re ‘just insecure’?” she asks. “Did he accuse you of being unfaithful for no reason?
“This type of gaslighting isn’t just about humiliation,” Smith wrote.[but] It’s also very enlightening. “
Her lesson: He is “projecting” his guilt of deception onto you.
“In a loving relationship, the response to concerns raised should be shock and gentle affirmation,” Smith said.
“Think, ‘Oh my God, I would never do that to you,'” Eyeful encouraged. “It’s not, ‘Are you crazy? I can’t deal with your insecurities right now.”
Intuition is key
“Women have higher emotional intelligence than men,” Smith said. “But we’re also masters at convincing ourselves that bizarre behavior must have an innocent explanation — when every bone in our bodies screams otherwise.”
Smith asserts, “Trust your gut,” rather than rationalizing a person’s bizarre behavior.
“Almost all the messages I get are from women saying something doesn’t feel right, and sadly, they’re usually right,” she revealed. “When in doubt, call him out – or call on the services of someone like me!”
emotional distance
“Does your partner seem distracted during conversations?” Smith asked. “Has his compliments stopped? Has he touched you a lot before and now doesn’t?”
If any of these questions prompt “yes,” then the Human Dual Timing Detector wants women to be careful.
“This emotional detachment is one of the biggest red flags.”
Remove cheats
Even without Smith’s help, some web-savvy detectives have become adept at sniffing out dog tracks on their own.
Earlier this year, digital content creator Abby Paige tinkered with her Wi-Fi settings to capture her partner sneaking around with other women on the world wide web.
Liesel, a Gen Z from Missouri, learned the truth about their sweetheart’s infidelity while innocently scrolling through social media.
The brunette beauty accidentally exposed her ex’s inappropriate behavior after stumbling upon another woman’s “Get Ready With Me” TikTok video.
In the video, another girl is getting ready for a hot date – at Liesel’s boyfriend’s house.