Integrating Intimacy: Make Sex a Seamless Part of You

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Is your sex life part of your marriage, or is it its own thing? Does sex flow in your marriage, or does it exist when you take it out of the box and enjoy it?

When I say free flow in your marriage, I don’t mean having sex all over the house every chance you get. I mean, you flirted on and off. Some flirting may be overtly sexual, but most is just innuendo. It’s a kiss that expresses your desire, a hug in a way you wouldn’t hug anyone else, or a pat on the butt.

A literal reading of Proverbs 5:19 is this:

Let your wife’s nipples satisfy you at all times; be constantly intoxicated by her love.

Nothing can put your sexuality into a box. It’s part of your daily life. We have to understand others, but even in public we can show our love by clearly desiring the other person. It’s good for other couples and teenagers to see married couples who still enjoy sex with each other.

Some of you are thinking, “I’m all for it, but my wife would be devastated”. Maybe she’ll be okay with something a little more conservative than what you do. Maybe you’re uncomfortable with taking sex out of the box. Are you against pushing for sex when you can’t get naked? Are you secretly excited about your desire for your wife? Feeling a little embarrassed?

bottom line: If we view Proverbs 5:19 as a command, do you live up to it? If not, what changes need to be made to make this a reality?

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