In order to defend the sex doll (damn stigma!) – Girl Juice

I’ve written a lot about sex dolls and sex robots over the years, so when I was researching these products, I’ve encountered a lot of anti-gender stigma. It is usually a general argument made by a person with basically good intentions, as follows:

“As long as someone wants to own and use a sex doll, that’s great, as long as it doesn’t interfere with their ability to build relationships.”

Today, I’m going to record my popular records: I think using sex dolls is good Even if they do if only You can do it. Let me explain…

Not everyone wants romance or sex!

Yes: Even if they don’t like dating/fucking real people, sexual and aromatic people may like a sex doll. My Allo (non-ACE/ARO) readers might be wondering: “Why do anyone want one Sex toyspresumably used during masturbation, if they are asexual? ! “The answer is sex Attractive Different from gender Behavior and sex desire. For example, sometimes a straight woman might have a straight male stimulus because it was primarily targeted at the clitoris, but that doesn’t negate her straight-sexuality-or a gay person might be impulsive with a female friend just to “try it out”, but might even have a pleasant time, but that doesn’t change the fact that he is gay.

Asexual attitude is a sexual orientation characterized by Lack Sexual Attraction – But many ace people still masturbate and/or have sex. And, due to the high overlap between the asexual and aromatic communities, it is perfectly reasonable for some ace and/or Aro to prefer to use sex dolls and other types of sex toys. These products provide sexual pleasure without seeking human connections that may be wanted or unwanted.

There are also people who are unidentified as ace or aro, but are single for various reasons – perhaps due to a struggle with trauma or mental health, or as a matter of choice – these people can also get a lot of value from sex dolls. For example, if you were in an involuntary situation before, I would feel very out of control, for example, I could see how it gives yourself the ability to get a custom sex doll – you have complete control over the doll and how to interact with it, which is probably less terrifying and triggering than people with humans.

You don’t owe the world a cookie love story!

As queer, trans, kink and polylovers already know very well, the world is full of harmful myths that make up “healthy” or “acceptable” relationships. have unlimited Different ways to build and tag our relationships – so while you may be trapped in the opposite cultural message, you are not obliged to fall into monogamy, long-term romantic relationships, or any other type of relationship. Your life is your design!

As advocates of disability and anti-obesity often point out, our society empowers health as moral good, which is why so many people feel justified about the humiliation of fat people and disabled people because they do not “work hard” to meet a specific definition of health. This practice is harmful and inadequate, not only because health depends on certain factors that we have no choice (such as disability and genetics), but also because no one is morally obligated to be healthy. Health and illness are a practical consideration, not a moral consideration.

Similarly, there is no essential good or bad in relationships, or no Being in a romantic relationship – whether temporary or decades! Don’t get me wrong: humans are social creatures, if someone lacks them any The meaningful social connections (including friendships) in their lives may not be healthy for them and I would recommend that they join local hobby/interest groups to meet people. but Romantic and sex Connection is not a good requirement for life, and don’t let anyone tell you how to be different.

Ultimately, it’s just a toy

I think when people grab the pearls of sex toys, they tend to forget that these products are simply… No Replace interpersonal relationships. Sex dolls can’t make you laugh, be fascinated by conversations, or make you truly loved. Even if AI technology gets better, I wouldn’t have predicted that human robots, as our preferred sexual partner, will completely surpass humans. The real person is easy to be foolish, imaginative, imperfect, and Humans, That’s why the dynamic and exciting connection to them. I like to know that partners choose to touch me in a specific way because of their own preferences and the combination of their knowledge mine Preference – I find it hard to believe that a robot can replicate this, in large part because the robot cannot experience desire. (Fight with me, major in philosophy.

If someone really feels that all their romantic and sexual needs (within the scope they have) are a sex doll, I’m happy for them! We all should be so lucky that we meet our needs. And, if they find something missing and want to continue pursuing relationships, I’m happy for them too. The more fun you pursue and experience, the closer you are to building your ideal life – I mean, the ideal life is the ideal life youspecifically. You are the only one who can decide this.

So no, I think there is something wrong with having a sex doll, even Do Causes your romantic and sexual focus to change. This is the choice you choose because it is your life – if you want to live intimately with a sex doll (or tick-In-in-Vag), then there is more power for you. For fucking, just make sure you clean it correctly after every use.

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