I’m using artificial intelligence to find love — and ChatGPT will do just that
Would you use artificial intelligence to find true love?
Lovelorn singles feeling burned out on dating apps are getting more creative in their search for romance, with one woman turning to an AI chatbot to help her meet the man of her dreams.
In a viral TikTok video, single Erin Spencer announced that she would use ChatGPT to help her find a husband in 2025.
“Over the years, I’ve basically made a list of everything, all the traits, characteristics, everything that I want in an ideal man,” Spencer explained in her TikTok, without revealing what they were.
“I pulled out my list and said to ChatGPT, ‘If I wanted a man who had all of the following qualities, what kind of woman do you think he would want?'”
After reviewing the list generated by ChatGPT, she pointed out some qualities she already had and others she needed to work on.
She then asked ChatGPT to generate a daily schedule for the woman, covering everything from waking up to workouts and meals.
Spencer said she plans to follow this timeline as part of a journey of self-improvement until she finds her future husband,
“See you soon,” she captioned the video.
While it’s too early to tell whether AI will provide her with the girl of her dreams, viewers were impressed by her creative approach.
“For me, it’s not really about changing who I am as a person, because I do consider myself a good person…it’s more about the mental side of things…becoming the best version of myself so that I can Attract the best Erin said in a follow-up video.
“I want to be a better person. I want to do better so I can attract better people. I don’t think that’s a bad thing.”
While turning to artificial intelligence, lonely singles are also turning backwards, hoping to tap into centuries-old traditions to attract new love in the new year.
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People on TikTok claim to have found love after eating 12 grapes in the first minute of the new year.
But the grape theory isn’t just a TikTok trend, it’s actually a centuries-old Spanish tradition called “uvas de la suerte,” which translates to “lucky grapes.”
This custom involves eating a grape at the stroke of midnight on December 31 to welcome the New Year. Each grape represents a month of the coming year.
Izzy Dwyer posted a video on TikTok of herself quickly devouring 12 grapes as the clock struck midnight on New Year’s last year, followed by an adorable montage of her and her boyfriend.
“Who would have thought,” she captioned the video.

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