I’m ready and willing to meet my special someone – Dating

Many people who haven’t met a potential partner have similar conversations.

Improving your daily thoughts and positive verbal communication is very important in attracting a partner. Whether you believe in manifestation or not, maintaining a positive attitude is always a better approach rather than constantly repeating that nothing seems to be working for you when it comes to love and romance.

There are a few common phrases I hear men and women say all the time: “There’s no one suitable for me around me. I’ve given up. What’s the point? Men don’t want someone my age. Women are hard to please. They only want men with money!”

When you have a defeatist attitude, countless possibilities are closed off.

Today’s video and post is about changing your outlook on relationships and bringing love into your life. Positive affirmations can help you attract a potential partner. Setting intentions for love and repeating affirmations daily will bring you a positive relationship mindset. This will help to eliminate any negativity that is holding you back from getting the love you desire.

Whether you believe in the Law of Attraction or not, it is important to understand that you get back what you put out into the universe. If you change your belief system and have an optimistic attitude, you will start to attract like-minded people. Positivity attracts positivity, just as negativity attracts negativity. If you walk into a room full of people, you will always be attracted to the happy people in the room, not the ones with frowns and no effort.

For many years after my divorce, I no longer believed I could ever form a mutually beneficial connection with someone again.

I was a young single mom living in the past and dwelling on the failure of my marriage. We often play the victim in life instead of learning the lessons that need to be learned so that we can move forward in a healthy direction. We also get stuck in dealing with emotions like anger, sadness, self-doubt, and fear of the future.

It wasn’t until much later, when my son was older, that I decided I was ready and worthy of a loving relationship. It was important that I had a clear idea of ​​what I wanted in a partner. I wrote down 10 important qualities that I should look for in a potential partner, and then I crafted a short paragraph that explained how I was ready and willing to accept love in my life and that I deserved happiness.

I also often imagined myself walking down the aisle with my son in my arms at my wedding. It was a constant image in my mind! I read my list out loud most nights before bed, and three months later I met my husband. My son ended up walking me down the aisle at our surprise wedding in front of 135 guests!

My son and I at my surprise wedding

The key to making things manifest in your life is to visualize them before they happen and at the same time understand that you deserve it.

It’s also important to set boundaries so you don’t repeat negative dating or relationship patterns. Whenever doubt creeps in, it holds you back from achieving what you really want. I’m certainly not a manifestation expert, but I know enough to trust our Thoughts do become things.

Adjust your mindset and change your life. Just changing your thought process and a few pessimistic words in your vocabulary can make a huge difference in your life. It will also make people want to be around you because you are a positive person who won’t put energy into negative discussions.

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We don’t always understand how simple habits that don’t serve us well can undermine our happiness.

Some clients mention that they are too busy to make an appointment. This is another common Negative information This can deter potential partners from entering their lives.

If you can’t take the time and energy to get to know someone, why would they stay with you or give you energy if it’s not reciprocated? This is where your conversations and thought processes will continue to sabotage your chances of building any type of loving relationship. People are selective about who they date, and first impressions are the most important. If you’re too busy to date, then you’re not ready for a relationship. This is very obvious early on for anyone seeking a committed partner.

Some people have such clutter in their homes that they simply don’t have room for others to come in. Likewise, this behavior can prevent love from coming to you because you are not emotionally and physically available to receive love and to make room to share your life with someone else.

You need to have a clear path for love to come in. A very busy or disorganized life is a sign that you have too many obstacles that most people wouldn’t want to face.

Why shouldn’t you get what you want?

We all deserve love, and we all deserve a happy life. It takes some effort to get your mindset to believe this, but it can be done. No matter some of the tough times you’ve been through in life, there is light at the end of the tunnel. Being grateful for life’s lessons and challenges can help you realize happy times in the future.

Chant the following mantra every day: “I am healthy, wealthy, and loved.” For example “I’m broke, I need to lose weight, and I’m single forever!” It all depends on a good attitude!

Interestingly, when you are grateful for even the smallest things in life, you tend to attract more positive things. When you smile at others, more people are naturally attracted to you, so doesn’t it make sense to call that out? Why close the door to something so simple?

Some men and women don’t always believe in themselves because they make some choices out of fear or they get stuck in victim mode.

They may also lack self-esteem and not believe they deserve great things because of the hardships they have endured in the past. When you give in to those difficult life choices you allow yourself to make, you will move on from the pain faster each time. Life is one long learning process that keeps teaching us some hard lessons. That is how we evolve and become better versions of ourselves over the years.

No one has an easy life. It is a natural process that makes us better people and keeps us humble and grateful for every day of our lives.

Be clear about what you are looking for in a potential partner.

I’ve had clients tell me that they didn’t know what they were looking for in a partner, but they were convinced that they Do not want. Can you see how this is automatically a negative statement?

If you’re feeling confused and lonely at this stage in your life, it’s time to reevaluate what’s truly important to you and understand what having a life partner means to you. What would make them stand out and win your heart? When you close your eyes and imagine your dream partner, what do you see?

Photo: Mizuno K

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What gives you purpose and brings you joy? If you want to change something that’s not going well in your life, surround yourself with healthy situations as often as possible. Change up your repetitive routine to bring you more rewarding energy and excitement. If you want to be more socially active, join a walking/hiking group in your city to meet new people.

Scheduling events on your calendar or going out can get you out of the house and put you in a better mood. Who doesn’t love nature and the outdoors? It’s a natural mood enhancer. The more like-minded people you surround yourself with, the happier you’ll be every time you participate in a group activity.

When it comes to dating, one of the hardest things for both men and women to agree on is how much preparation it takes just to meet someone. The more activities you engage in, the easier it will be to interact with people who have similar desires and goals. This will remove the uncomfortable energy and eventually become an easygoing, natural behavior. You’ll be really surprised at how many ways changing this behavior will enrich your life.

Thanks, Sybersue xo

Here is another article you might like to keep you in a positive state of mind.

Sybersue offers private dating relationship coaching – please feel free to contact me at dearsybersue@gmail.com and send me a message there to schedule a video or audio date within 24 hours. Thank you!

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