How to use male prostate toys.
Prostate stimulation is linked to the “point of no return” sensation with penile orgasms. The prostate contracts during orgasm to help expel seminal fluid out of the penis. Prostate stimulation can generate this sensation directly, without stimulating the penis at all.
How to try a prostate vibrator safely
If you’re curious about a prostate vibrator, it’s best to try it yourself before using it with a partner. This gives you plenty of time to adjust and decide whether you find prostate stimulation enjoyable.
If you decide to try a prostate vibrator with your partner, please discuss this before you begin. During anal penetration, it is important to communicate with your partner. It takes time to fully relax the anal sphincter, so you and your partner need to be patient and ready to stop if injured.
1. Maintain good hygiene habits.
Keep your sex toys clean before and after use. Note that cleanliness is important for any form of anal play. Proper anal sex can reduce the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) and bacteria. Before trying prostate massage, please use the bathroom and clean yourself thoroughly with a warm bath or shower. Clean the prostate massager before and after each use.
2. Make sure you have enough lubricants.
Unlike the vagina, the rectum cannot secrete fluids to lubricate itself. Therefore, whether the lubricating fluid is sufficient is related to how well the prostate vibrator is used. Reminder: Go slowly and use plenty of lube before putting anything in the anus.
3.Do the foreplay.
The muscles in and around the anus need time to relax. Warm up by sexually arousing yourself. As we mentioned, this causes congestion and enlargement of the prostate. Masturbation (without orgasm) is most effective if you can stop yourself from reaching orgasm. If you’re doing a prostate massage with your partner, make sure you take some time for foreplay. Once you have relaxed and opened up, find a position where you can easily get into prostate stimulation. Consider lying on your back with your knees raised, or lying on your back with your partner.
Don’t put too much pressure on yourself. The whole point of trying new things in sex is to have as much fun as possible. Prostate orgasm is great, but it’s not the most important and final thing: if you don’t have an orgasm, there will always be another time!
Maintenance and cleaning
It’s important to keep sex toys clean, especially when used with a partner. You can use antibacterial soap and water to clean hard plastic and silicone toys. Prostate vibrators involve electronic components, so avoid submerging them in water. Instead, use a soft, damp, soapy cloth to clean them. Your toy may also come with cleaning instructions; if so, please read and follow them.