How to role play with your partner

Posted by PSEDEN

2024-12-23

On 2024-12-23

Your sex life is a place where you can explore, be creative, and have fun in pursuit of new levels of pleasure. For those who like to really switch things up, role play can be an incredibly popular way to spice up your sex life.

A U.S. survey found that up to twenty two% of respondents said they had participated in role play at some point in their lives. Of course, this is just one study. We wouldn’t be surprised if this number is actually much higher. It also doesn’t take into account people who are interested in role-playing but haven’t tried it yet.

Sound like you?

We get it, role playing can be intimidating. But as with anything new, sometimes you just need the right guidance to help you get started. The LELO team is here to guide you.

Role playing with your partner is a great way to stimulate your sexual desires and fantasies. Role-playing gives you the chance to be anyone you want to be – which can be liberating for both parties (or more). You might feel a little silly. But if this is the worst that could happen, then there’s certainly no reason not to try!

Choose your role

Most role play fantasies tend to fall into a general theme, which could be something you enjoy and your normal life, or something that makes you feel powerful or exciting.

If you’re a big Game of Thrones fan or into all things fantasy, you might want to try dressing up as a sexy fairy or using dirty magic in your dirty talk.

Sports fan? Make your fantasy league a reality by breaking down the sports gear and getting creative with any props and said sports involved.

Role playing can also mean pretending to be a completely different person. This might mean putting on a wig, making up a backstory, and pretending to meet your partner in a bar with a sexy image.

this The most popular sensual role play scenes Including doctor/patient, delivery person/household spouse, hostess/French maid, professor/student – see a pattern here? These are all dynamics we encounter in life (except for one, unless you hire a French maid), so they’re a great place to start.

Communicate with your partners

If role playing is new to you and your partner, it might be a little nerve-wracking at first. Especially if you haven’t told your partner you want to try it yet. Sex is all about communication, especially when you’re trying something new.

Your partner might really enjoy it, and maybe they want to try role playing, but they just don’t have the courage to tell you yet. Often more people will be receptive to this vibe, especially if you’re already very sexually compatible. That’s a sexy conversation in itself!

Here are some ways to break the ice:

“I’ve always fantasized about pretending to be ____ and would love to try it with you.”
“I’ve been imagining you in ____ clothing and you look so sexy.”
“I’m really attracted to ____’s energy and would love to cosplay at some point.”

If you’re not sure whether your partner is into role play, consider putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and showing your partner how it can change the dynamic of your lovemaking. Be whoever you like – as long as it’s someone else; a sexy stripper or a naughty neighbor and see where your performance leads you.

The element of surprise can be super sexy. If you try it without their prior knowledge, make sure it doesn’t cross any consent lines!

Get your gear

Luckily, we all have some of the most important components of sexy role play, and that’s a healthy imagination. Costumes and props can add to the experience, but aren’t entirely necessary – like many things, it’s the story that matters. Sometimes when it comes to sexy scenes, simpler is better.

A great way to ease into role playing is to go to a costume/sex store with your partner to get some inspiration about areas of role play that excite you both. But you can also use anything you have around the house, like office supplies for your school/work fantasies, and old boxes for those of you who love delivery drivers!

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set boundaries

Because role play is a Tangledit’s important to set boundaries so everyone can feel safe and comfortable in the experience. This means discussing boundaries, safe words and practicing them in conversations aftercare.

Respect, consent, and communication are all essential, even if (especially if) the fantasy you’re playing out might be a little rough or in the realm of BDSM.

If your partner wants to try role playing but you’re not really into it (or aren’t sure you’re into it), discuss whether there’s a type of role play that makes you feel more approachable and can help you improve your comfort level in a small area – But not completely out of it. You might surprise yourself!

have fun!

Role playing, like sex in general, can be silly and awkward at times. It’s part of being human and trying new things. This is why a sense of humor is crucial when exploring role-playing. The ability to handle any awkwardness without judgment and laugh it off is not only the key to more enjoyable and passionate sex, but also to building a strong relationship.

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