How to Masturbate – A Guide to 18 Tips for Female Masturbation

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Sometimes, if you want to get things done, you have to do it yourself. But what if you’re not sure how to masturbate to get amazing pleasure? After all, there are countless reasons why someone might not be familiar with the ins and outs of masturbation (no judgment here).

This guide to masturbation will cover everything you need to know so that you can confidently explore your body and find the techniques that work best for you.

1. Create an atmosphere

The atmosphere when you masturbate doesn’t need to be candlelight and silk sheets (unless you want it to be). You can put it anywhere you feel comfortable – A quiet room, a bubble bath with the door locked, the couch in the living room, anywhere! Just make sure it’s a place where you can relax, frolic, and give yourself some loving attention.

notes: It’s up to you whether to do it alone or not. Having a partner watch or masturbating with them can be a real turn-on for some people. If you like it, then go for it!

2. Reading pornographic books

When it comes to setting the mood, sometimes location alone isn’t enough, and we need that extra kick to get things going (and keep them going).

Pornographic books are great for stirring up emotions And keep your mind active (because remember, the brain is the largest sex organ and it needs as much nourishment as the body).

3. Try audiobooks

If you don’t want to hold a paper book (so you can Free your hands to play Audiobooks are a great option when you’re addicted to erotic texts. I recommend learning the plot beforehand so you know which juicy parts to skip if needed — or having a few familiar novels ready (like your erotic audio buffet).

Fun fact: Lovense has a partnership with bloomstories.com (an erotic audiobook site that offers short stories for all tastes that aren’t ashamed of being sexual). Some stories have the option to sync up with a Lovense toy so it vibrates during the erotic parts!

4. Add some visual aids

There’s enough porn on the Internet to sink the earth a hundred times over – and to satisfy any of your interests. Find, bookmark and/or download the content you like (beware of viruses).

Additional fun: Try to synchronize your movements with those of the actors.

Since we’re talking about visuals,Why not try masturbating in front of a mirror? It might be more exciting than you think.

5. Try fantasy

Maybe you don’t need pornography or erotic books. Maybe your mind is creative enough that you are your own entertainment! Close your eyes and let your mind wander.

Don’t be ashamed if things get kinky or weird! You’re safe in your own brain and no one will ever know, *wink. You can also use all those porn and erotic stories to enhance your fantasies.

6. Slow down

Yes, there is such a thing as a quickie—and there’s nothing wrong with doing it. But if you need something more satisfying, you’ll have to take your time.

this means Avoid any vigorous touching or thrusting Until enough blood reaches the necessary areas. So, if you have the time, prolong your masturbation and extend the experience.

7. Try a gentle touch

Some erogenous zones (especially the clitoris) can be very sensitive and need to be warmed up before you can go in with more force. If you find it difficult to create that pleasurable tension, turn down the pressure and just stroke and caress gently.

8. Play with U-SPOT

The U-spot is the area around the urethra, and like the rest of the vagina, it has nerve endings around it. The difference is that you don’t need to press hard on this spot. A gentle touch can make people feel very comfortable For some ladies, this can be a great addition to a masturbation warm-up.

9. Try on your underwear

Some women are just more sensitive overall, and no amount of application will help—or maybe your body has decided it’s going to stay that way for a few days. If that’s the case, Try normal movements through your underwear Or place a piece of cloth (such as a towel) between your body and the action.

notes: This is also useful if you want to try sex toys, but the vibrations are too loud for you.

10. Explore your erogenous zones

All of this advice applies to things beyond the vagina, too. There are many parts of our bodies that we enjoy our partners paying attention to, so why should we neglect them when we’re in control of our own pleasure? Try playing your…

• breast
• nipple
• Lips
• Inner thigh
• Anywhere that makes you happy

11. Try different poses

You may already have a “preferred” position in mind, and that’s fine, but don’t be afraid to try other things—you might find a new position that surprises you. Also, remember Different postures may bring different feelings Or maybe using a different technique could achieve better results.

• Lie on your back with your arms outstretched
• Alternatively, bend your knees and open your legs.
• Pull your knees toward your chest
• Turn to your side
• Lying down
• Sitting on a chair or other furniture
• Get on your hands and knees
• Squat

I’m also sure any yoga student could add more ideas to this list.

12. Try pillow and towel rubbing

If you’re lying on your stomach, try putting a pillow or rolled-up towel between your legs. This way you have a solid object to press against, giving you the pressure and friction you need to orgasm. It’s also great for stuffing sex toys into.

13. Use of sex toys

I’ve mentioned sex toys a few times when talking about tips on how to masturbate. They’re a great addition if you need more stimulation or have trouble orgasming on your own.

Buhler Vibrator – These small sex toys are very discreet, cost less than other sex toys, and are designed to target the clitoris (although they can be used on other body parts if you prefer). Keep in mind that the cheaper the toy, the weaker the vibrator, and they are not designed for penetration.

Love eggs and vibrators – You can also try a regular vibrating dildo or an insertable dildo. Some come with a G-spot bump and some don’t. I can’t recommend which is better because everyone has different preferences.

Rabbit Vibrator – These are like dildos. However, they also come with an extra arm that stimulates the clitoris. Perfect for those who like a combination orgasm.

Magic Wand – If you’ve never bought a sex toy before, I wouldn’t recommend buying a wand first – they’re very powerful. They’re usually guaranteed to give you an extreme orgasm, but they take a while to get used to.

14. Try other areas of your vagina

While the clitoris is our pleasure seat and reliable magic button, don’t be afraid to play with your labia and surrounding area. There are plenty of pleasure nerve endings there, too.

15. Try some lube

If you find it uncomfortable, try adding a few drops of lubricant so that your movements are smoother and less unpleasant friction is reduced. In addition, you can try Heating and cooling lubricants To get a different type of feeling.

notes: Lubricants are essential, but most people don’t realize that 80% of products out there aren’t very good for your body. For example, KY jelly is a must-have in OB/GYNs, but it’s one of the worst lubricants you can use. When choosing a quality lubricant, pH and osmotic pressure are very important.

16. Experiment with the edge

Edging is when you feel your orgasm coming, but instead of going in, you pull back and let the orgasm subside. Afterwards, you slowly increase the pressure again until you get close to orgasm again. The number of “back and forth” sessions you do is up to you, but even just one session of edging can help you have a better orgasm.

If you like internal masturbation, it’s important to take good care of your G-spot. If you don’t know where your G-spot is, or how to massage it, follow these simple steps…

• Point G is located at 2 inches inside the front vaginal wall (Toward your belly, not your back).

• This will be a Different textures A piece of tissue about the size of a quarter.

• This part of the vaginal lining doesn’t “appear” until it becomes engorged with blood. This means you have to be excited before you can find it.

• You can use two fingers to massage the G spot – A gentle but firm “come here” motion.

• G-spot orgasm can Deeper and stronger (Sometimes this may make you feel like you need to pee – don’t worry, resist the “urge”).

recommend: If your fingers can’t quite reach that spot, try a sex toy with a G-spot curve (preferably one with a curved handle that’s easier for your wrist to maneuver).

17. Try one, two, and three fingers

How many fingers you use is up to you, but don’t be afraid to experiment with how many you use during play – this can range from simple touching to penetration. Also, don’t be afraid to use two hands while playing.

18. Have multiple types of orgasms

Clitoral orgasm – There is stroking, circular motions, flicking, gentle squeezing and sucking (if you have a sex toy that can do this – like a “Womanizer”). You can do these with the clitoral hood pulled down, or you can pull it back for more intense sensations.

Vaginal orgasm – You can do this by inserting your fingers or toys and stimulating the G-spot and/or vagina. There are so many techniques you can use – too many to list in this article.

Anal orgasm – The butt (inside and outside) is filled with just as many nerve endings as our other pleasure spots. You can treat this part of the body the same way you would the clitoris, the U-spot, or the inside of the vagina. Fingers or toys are fine, but if you’re going to use a toy, make sure it has BROAD BASED This way nothing can slip in and be lost in the colon.

notes: Anal sex can be scary for some people. View This article If you need any more advice or reassurance.

Combination Climax – Combinations are usually vaginal and clitoral orgasms, but they are not limited to just those two. If you can orgasm somewhere else, go for it!

Other regional highs – Did you know that some women have nipples that are so sensitive that they can orgasm simply by stimulation? Find other parts of your body that make you moan.

End Notes

Remember, a great masturbation session isn’t a race to the finish line. It’s a slow, beautiful journey that culminates in an explosive fireworks display. However, even if you don’t orgasm at the end, you can still have a great time.

Do you have any other tips for how to masturbate (for women)? Share them in the comments!