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Helen: You may not know how you will respond until you try.
Jessica: I happened to disagree. I happen to think that if you are familiar with yourself, you can evaluate how you will react to something…
Helen: Do you know how you will deal with everything?
Jessica: Almost yes.
[Helen suddenly kisses her; Jessica falls silent, shocked]
Helen: I think you are right. You seem to know yourself well.
Conversations in movies Kiss Jessica Stan All in all, why did it take me so long to realize that I like to do cock and ball torture (aka CBT, not to be confused with cognitive behavioral therapy). I thought I knew myself enough to already know that, more or less, kinks might appeal to me and that simply didn’t appeal to me. But I was wrong.
My first CBT experience
My first few penis companions had no interest in genital torture – to be fair, neither – and I didn’t meet someone who wanted me to hurt his dick until I was in my twenties.
He raised it during a late night pistol. We haven’t been dating for a long time, so to speak, I’m still trying to master what works for him. Despite all my efforts and interest, I still couldn’t let him come. When he got out of the car, I was just lying on the bed occasionally.
I want to go again tonight, but his dick still doesn’t seem to be impressed. So I struggled with technical aspects, doing everything I could think of until… he put his hand on my hand, pausing my stroke, and simply saying, “Pinch the skin as much as possible.”
I remember thinking: Do my best? are you sure? !
But voila, when I picked a position on his axis and followed his instructions, he went all out in a few seconds.
The relationship didn’t last long, for many reasons (some sexual, some were sexual), but it taught me some important lessons that I’d take me to the rest of my life and date life – including Dick Pain may be a turn for some, and obviously I’m one of those people.
Why I like CBT now
It’s been nearly a decade since the initial plier pistol started everything, and since then, I’ve done a lot of CBT. I’m certainly not a professional, like the player experts you see on editing sites and at certain fetish parties (you know who you are!), but I’m semi-regulated and enjoy. Here are some reasons why I like CBT…
•It’s hot to hurt people who want to be injured! Unless they really want me, I don’t like slapping someone’s dick because masochist’s desire for pain and positive responses to pain mostly makes my interaction feel. Someone begging you to hurt them, and if both of you like it, it will be as hot as begging you to fuck them, for the same reason: it means they want you, they trust you. This is highly praised!
• The penis is culturally heavy. Slapping someone’s cock does differ from slapping a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap on a slap Because of the different nerve ends involved, it not only feels very different in body. Feel very different, too Psychologically For the top and bottom. People’s feelings about their genitals may be related to their understanding of gender, power, desirability/attraction, etc., all of which can appear in CBT games (this is part of the reason why pre-negotiation and consequences are so important!). Again, I know that my feelings about CBT as a top tier are influenced by the cultural luggage I absorbed from my dick. Throughout my life, I felt afraid of them, fascinated by them, longing for them, and often in some combination, so psychologically a fun experience that can cause voluntary pain.
• The new route to pleasure/orgasm is cool! Nothing is more sexy than seeing someone overwhelmed many At this point, I still find it surprising every time. Apart from my previous partner experiences described above, my spouse and I have never played this kink before, so we have found this new way to share happiness through pain.
Dear readers, what about you? Are you a CBT fanatic, or is it a bridge that is too far away for your delicate, uh, sensitivity?
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