How does Fleshlight compare to tantaly for VR use?

I’m going to be living alone in a few months and I’m thinking of getting myself a sex toy, along with a Quest 3 VR headset. I’m not sure whether to get the Fleshlight, which also has a shower stand that you can use in the shower, or one of the cheaper ($200-300) Tantaly mini-torso, which is mostly just the butt and vagina, but you can place it on a bed or couch and have sex, rather than masturbating like the Fleshlight. Getting a headset is also a consideration, as the Tantaly seems to feel more realistic, but may also be harder to use depending on the position. The only sex toy I’ve used before was a $20 pocket vagina from a sex shop near me, so this is pretty new to me. To be honest, money is also a factor, but if this is something I’ll own and use for quite a while, I can justify the money spent. Thanks to everyone for your responses!

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