How do I spray? LELO talks about female ejaculation

The topic of female ejaculation and squirting has long been a source of mystery, controversy, and sometimes unrealistic expectations. These terms are often confused and used interchangeably and refer to the unique physiological responses that many women experience during intense sexual arousal and orgasm.

By exploring the latest scientific understanding, anatomical facts and practical advice, we aim to demystify these powerful forms of female pleasure.

What is the difference between female ejaculation and squirting?

Female ejaculation and squirting are Two different types of liquid release This can happen during orgasm, although both stem from similar anatomy.

Is female ejaculation real? Where does the liquid come from?

Yes, female ejaculation is real. It is the release of small amounts of fluid produced by the body paraurethral glandalso known as Skene’s gland.

These glands are located in the tissue surrounding the urethra, the tube that carries urine out of the body. Researchers, especially Milan Zaviačič and colleagues (1990-2000), studied these glands extensively and found:

• Skene’s glands produce Prostate-specific antigen (PSA)a marker commonly associated with the male prostate.

• These tissues and enzymes are similar to those in the male prostate, so scientists often refer to Skene’s glands as “The female prostate.”

• The fluid excreted during female ejaculation is biochemically equivalent to the composition of male semen.

To get a clearer idea of ​​the location of these glands relative to the clitoris, urethra, and vagina, see the image below.

This physiological similarity suggests that female ejaculation may be a evolutionary by-product (homologous feature) of the male reproductive system, just as male nipples are a by-product of female developmental patterns. However, Skene’s glands are always active and help with sexual functions besides ejaculation, such as lubrication and sexual health.

What is the G-spot? How does it relate to squirting?

this G-spot (Grafenberg point) It is a highly sensitive area located on the front wall of the vagina, a few centimeters from the entrance. It is broadly described as a slightly raised, bumpy area of ​​erectile tissue surrounding the urethra.

Stimulation of the G-spot is often key to female ejaculation and squirting because Skene’s glands and the root of the urethra are anatomically located in this area.

• Intense or prolonged pressure on the G-spot can cause intense sensations, often described as “Need to pee” This indicates irritation of Skene’s glands and pressure on the bladder. This feeling is usually a precursor to squirting.

• Stimulating the G-spot, often with a curved toy or finger, can change the angle of the urethra relative to the bladder, which may help the fluid drain (ejaculate).

Do all women squirt? How can I increase my chances of squirting?

Controversy over whether all women can squirtBut many sex researchers, such as French gynecologist Dr. Samuel Salama, believe that most women are anatomically capable and that success often depends on technique and mental state. A 2011 study on female ejaculation found that only about 10-50% of women reported experiencing it, suggesting that it may not be a common experience, or perhaps not universally known how to achieve it.

For those interested in exploring this orgasm, here are some tips:

1. Mental and emotional preparation

• Prioritize waking up: A high level of arousal is crucial. Identify what turns you on physically and mentally. Deep understanding of your body (your clitoris, G-spot, even A-spot) are key to building pleasure.

• Relaxation is key: Stress and anxiety are happiness killers. Relaxation and comfort are important as it is possible to make a “confusion” (You might want to put down the towel!). Avoid putting any mental pressure on yourself or your partner to achieve a specific outcome.

• Hug feeling: Many women report that the feeling before squirting is a strong urge to urinate. you must give in to this feeling Then let go instead of holding on or holding on.

2. Physical and technical preparation

• Moisturizing: Drink water about 30 minutes before training. Adequate hydration increases your body’s natural fluid production and ensures that the fluid you drain is lighter in color.

• Aiming for the G-spot: Use a curved sex toy or two fingers to apply strong, intense pressure The G-spot area against the front wall of the vagina. You usually need to be more determined and persistent than with typical internal stimulation.

  • We recommend G-spot vibrators with an angled design, such as the INA Wave or MONA Wave, which can apply the necessary target pressure.

• Try different locations: Try a position that applies deep, direct, and sustained pressure to the front vaginal wall.

• Pelvic muscle relaxation: Although the pelvic floor muscles are active during orgasm, remaining relaxed during the stimulation phase can help promote fluid release.

• Research Contact: Amy Gilliland and others have found that women who don’t ejaculate may have higher PSA levels in their urine after orgasm. This supports the theory that in some people, fluid may pass into the bladder instead of being excreted, and this fluid may then be released during urination.

Why is female ejaculation controversial culturally and scientifically?

The skepticism and historical silence surrounding female ejaculation is part of a broader cultural pattern that has long marginalized female pleasure.

• Historical omissions: Although mentioned in ancient texts such as India Eros Discussion of female ejaculation largely disappeared from Western discourse until the 20th century, with the emergence of figures like Dr. Ernst Gräfenberg (in the 1950s). This long silence contributed to the modern view that women’s pleasure is “amorphous, mysterious, and secondary” to men’s pleasure.

• Medical Myths: For decades, little was known about Skene’s glands, and when fluid was discharged, it was often viewed as involuntary urination.Diauria). A lack of funding and focus on female sexuality has created gaps in scientific knowledge, leading to an ongoing but increasingly discredited “debate” over the reality of the phenomenon, as published in Postgraduate entrance examination (Search “female ejaculation physiology”).

• Pornography and legislation: The depiction of female ejaculation in pornography has been a source of debate. For example, in 2014, the British government banned the depiction of female ejaculation in legally produced pornography, while male ejaculation is still acceptable. This demonstrates a cultural double standard that views female orgasm as potentially obscene and something to be controlled or hidden, reinforcing a culture that views male pleasure as the default behavior.

By continuing to educate and normalize these forms of female orgasm, we can move beyond these outdated attitudes and celebrate all aspects of human sexuality.