Financial cheating signs most partners ignore

It turns out that the way to capture cheaters may not be hidden in their text, hidden in their DM, or whispering in late-night phone calls. It may sit in their bank statement.

Forgot the lipstick on the collar – the suspicious ATM extraction could be a real smoking gun.

“We are basically a cashless society these days, so if your partner has been tapping and go, using credit cards for reward points, and suddenly starts doing ATM withdrawals, it’s a breadcrumb to watch,” explained private investigator Cassie Crofts on Tiktok.

Why? “Cash doesn’t leave a way,” Crofts said. “If they go to a restaurant and spend $200, you can be sure they are not dining alone. But a $200 cash withdrawal? You don’t know what’s going on.”

Brothel manager Catherine de Noire said the location and timing of these withdrawals could be even more outrageous.

“The first thing is that a lot of people don’t have enough cash. So they withdraw money from the ATM, usually near brothels or somewhere inside the brothels,” she said on Instagram.

“It’s very suspicious, especially when you see your partner withdrawing a lot of money in the area at 4 a.m., the account is a shared one.”

Bottom line: If your joint account starts bleeding in the early hours of the morning, it may be time to have a serious conversation.

While money may be the most obvious indication, it isn’t the only household item that can turn a thief.

As the post previously reported, a woman discovered her husband’s infidelity, thanks to a very unlikely profile – their digital scale.

In the current Virus Reddit post, the wife using handle U/Throw-Doubt303 claimed she found late-night weighing when they were not in town, while her husband was allegedly alone.

“I checked the memory of the digital scale with curiosity, which showed two “unassigned” weighings of exactly 120 pounds, at 12:25 AM and 12:26 AM back-to-back login,” she wrote. “My weight isn’t 120 pounds in context, and that date I wasn’t there, just my husband.”

“The goal is to work hard to help build a better foundation for ourselves, and we agree not to see anyone else,” she added in the comments.

redditor does not have a stabbing word. One advice: “Pro tip – don’t tell him you know there is a woman there. Get in touch with the lawyer and make a game plan.”

Another said: “It’s two back-to-back weights. It’s simple. He’s already moving forward and is already tied to other women. No need to overthink.”

One commenter praised the finding: “This is an expert scout. A man underestimates our intuition level. When you face him, he may try to portray you as crazy or paranoid. You are not.”

In other words: If you are looking for clues, don’t just follow this money – follow the ounce.