Cunnilingus 101: 9 Tips for a Successful Blowjob | Sex Toys

CunnilingusAKA pussy licking, eating out, getting off, carpet munching, pussy diving or any of the many other colorful expressions to play with oral sex on a person in possession of a cat.

When it comes to cunnilingus, giving And receive are both experiences worth having, if you feel called. Not to mention the fact that, given the persistence of the genre, oral sex gap with whom we work, both have revolutionary potential.

Today’s lesson, my friends, focuses on how to give…And give GOOD.

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If you have a female cat yourself, you already have a head start when it comes to pleasing her, especially if you have experienced her power to please.

To simplify things a bit, cunnilingus involves using your tongue (and mouth) to stimulate your partner’s tongue. clitoris, lipsand other sensitive parts of the vulvaincluding the vaginal entrance, you say?

Consider this gift: a raw and dirty guide to giving a blowjob fit for a goddess.

1. No emergency

Quality sex usually requires a certain level of excitement and tension. Start by teasing your partner erogenous zones—or literally anywhere but her pussy. Kiss or lick her wrist, her neck, her breasts, her thighs. Blow on her ears. Caress her back. Kiss like teenagers, and/or integrate yoni massageForeplay can take many delicious forms, and the foreplay that follows your foreplay is even better.

2. Talking is cheap

While you can always look for cues like hip movements or facial movements, sometimes you’ll need a little direction. Ask her what feels good, if the rhythm is right for her, and what else she’d like. A few quick questions can move mountains, baby. Communication and consentalways, remember. Questions are especially important when what you are doing isn’t quite working, but your partner might not feel comfortable Comments on volunteering. Bonus: Talking is also a great excuse to dirty talk.

3. Try different positions

Oral missionary (if there is an oxymoron), with the receiving partner on his back, is a classic, proven one. But if it is uncomfortable for your neck, support a pillow under your partner’s hips to lift him up. Or have him move his cute ass to the edge of the bed and kneel in front of him. Sit on your partner’s face and 69 years old are also options. Just make sure you are both comfortable so you can both Enjoy the ride!

4. Be careful with your tongue

Cunnilingus isn’t a one-size-fits-all affair. Experiment with different rhythms, pressures, positions, and movements to find what works for your current partner. You can start with a broad, gentle squeeze and work your way up from there. While everyone’s pleasure is unique, some of the most popular tongue movements include: up and down, circles, side to side, quick pulsations in one spot, and gentle clitoral suction.

5. Face the music

Using your entire face and not just your tongue can be incredibly hot and helpful. For example, if you’re looking for direct clitoral stimulation, you might try lightly cupping the clitoris between your lips while simultaneously moving your head. Don’t forget that your nose can also be an instrument of pleasure, as can your cheeks and chin.

6. Ixnay on the abuse of the clitoris

Although many people with a pussy can only achieve orgasm through clitoral stimulation, remember that the clitoris is also a incredibly sensitive Going down on her can be a part of the human body, and sometimes even unpleasant. But some people know full well that they need extremely direct stimulation to reach orgasm. When in doubt, ask them. As for arousal, you can try flattening your tongue and licking upwards over the entire vulva, without the clitoris. Gently suck on her lips, tease her, and let the tension build.

7. Penetrate to exalt

Once you’ve established an oral-clitoral rhythm – with consent (always) – you can slide a few fingers or a toy inside the vagina. Oral sex plus penetration And the vibrations can be too strong, so if you go for the multi-stimulation approach, a dildo might be the solution. Slow, steady movements of the toy or your fingers along with constant pressure from your mouth can do wonders to get them to the top of the mountain, perhaps to the mixed orgasmTip: If using your fingers, insert your middle and index fingers, palm up, while slowly making a “come here” motion to stimulate her G point-There is toys designed for this Also!

8. Don’t curb your enthusiasm

It’s always super exciting when someone is serious about pleasing their partner. You may already know this from experience. To communicate your excitement, act like you mean it: Use your entire tongue, including the tip and underside, to play with the sensations. Lean into it so your partner feels compelled to squeeze you as much as they want. You can also add nipple stimulation: Don’t be afraid to show your excitement for your partner’s body. Chances are, their reaction will only make you more excited.

9. Don’t stop on the way to the top

Unless your partner specifically tells you to stop while he’s having an orgasm, try holding his hips while swirling your tongue around and along his vulva and fingering him. Chances are this will drive him extremely wild, but again, there’s no substitute for communication and consent.

Smell and taste: what to expect

To quote The Vagina Monologues“Don’t believe them when they tell you it smells like rose petals when it’s supposed to smell like cat.”

Everyone smells and tastes different. They can be sweet or sour, metallic or bitter, salty or spicy. Know that variety is the spice of life, so don’t panic if your partner smells or tastes drastically different than your previous partner: that’s completely normal.

The smell/taste may also vary throughout the month, depending on your partner. menstrual cycleBlood can affect tastefor example, as can the White discharge it is common with ovulation. That said, if you experience unusually strong odors on an ongoing basis (i.e. fishy/bad odors associated with bacterial vaginosis), you may need to run a health-focused conversation—with tact and sensual sensitivity.

xxxtra Safety and Hygiene Tips

– Wash your hands and cut/file your nails. If using your fingers, always make sure they are clean and smooth.

– If you have recently had coffee or alcohol, or eaten anything (or even if you haven’t eaten anything), consider first rinsing your mouth, and/or drinking water, and maybe even flossing/brushing your teeth if the time allows.

– If you don’t know your partner well, one or both of you haven’t been tested yet, and/or you have mouth ulcers, it’s not a bad idea to use a dental dam to protect against STIs.

Bottom line: A willingness to explore and a desire to please are the two most important ingredients to pleasuring your partner’s pussy. What works for one person may not work for another, and what works once may not work again. Every moment is a flower in bloom—remember that, and you’ll both be destined for pleasure. <3