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20 something couple MF want to spice up our sex life, open to most kinks but trying to figure out what toys to buy, any advice or help?
20 something couple MF want to spice up our sex life, open to most kinks but trying to figure out what toys to buy, any advice or help?
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I think maybe each of you should do some looking around and pick a toy or two each to bring and try together. If each of you have something to say “I’d like to try this” then you can do the exploring together. Then review the experience with each other and build on that.
If you want to start with just one toy I would suggest the classic magic wand. Works for both of you.
You can have a [beginner friendly multi purpose vibrator](https://sexdale.com/products/beginner-friendly-multi-purpose-vibrator-for-women)
You can explore other beginner friendly toys on the website.
How do you best receive pleasure or would like a more intense pleasure from? Clit, g-spit, breasts, other areas of the body? Or maybe from the emotional aspect: do you want to feel controlled, controlling, mutual pleasure, slutty, sensual, delicate? All these questions can help lead you to something that she will enjoy and he will enjoy using or pleasuring with.
What toys do you currently have? When you say you are open to most kinks, can you be more specific -are you looking for anal toys that both of you can use, prostate specific toys, vaginal toys, penile toys, or other (like slings, sex machines, restraints, other BDSM gear, etc.)?