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“cookie jarring” is a toxic dating trend

After a stall one night, a worried young woman sat on the bed.

There are so many options in date cookie jars.

One of the many things that make dating so difficult these days is that people don’t usually want to commit.

With the help of a dating app, singles continue to swipe their cards to see their other options even after meeting with someone they are interested in.

Unfortunately, the name of this toxic trend: Forbes explains, “Cooking Sting.”


Many of today’s singles are flaky and non-command. Lightfield Studios – Stock.adobe.com

Cooking stings are when someone keeps potential suitors in the back pocket as a safety net while exploring other dating potentials, but never really commits to it – in other words, you’re just one of the many cookies that will be around to cookie jars.

Rather than accepting someone’s minimum, look for some of these signs that you are seen as a treat rather than a sweet sign.

If the person you are dating rarely commits to the plan and doesn’t discuss where your relationship is going, then you are likely to be one of the many choices for this person.

Another sign to note is that if you feel very one-sided between you and your Beau. If you are often the one who lends a hand and gives most of your efforts, you’d better run to the mountain.


A sad woman hugging her partner from behind.
Please note these obvious signs that indicate that you are in a cookie-jar relationship. Antonioguillem -Stock.adobe.com

When texting and never feeling priorities, the response time is extended, which can mean the person you are seeing is pursuing other lovers.

When you evaluate the relationship between cookie crumbs, you should also be aware of whether your booing will take you around their friends and family, or whether they have ever posted you on social media.

If your answer to the above scenario is not available, your other meaning will most likely make you bagged it.

“Packing can be frustrating and undermine trust in a relationship, but there are many reasons why someone is bagged.”

“It could be out of fear, it could be because past relationships cannot be resolved. It doesn’t necessarily mean they don’t like you, or there is no hope for this relationship.”

But, “Dr. Chloe” Carmichael told the media that in some cases people choose to date people because they really like them and are not sure how best to handle their feelings.

Carmichael explained: “…Sometimes people really just want to stomp gently when a relationship is on a new or refined stage.”

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