“Change the way people see you forever”

This is the new law of attraction.

Dating expert Louanne Ward reveals a mistake, which is “kill your own attraction, not even realizing it.”

“Hurried conversations are filled with silence,” she said in an Instagram post. “Think more about what you want to say than listen. Quick exercise or irritability.”

The Australian media person explained that these “simple things” can add up to become “attraction blockers”.

But Ward shares a “simple three-second hack” that will make you look “more attractive, more charismatic and memorable” which she calls “pause and hold” technology”.

“Most people will never use it because silence feels uncomfortable. But when you learn to have it, it changes the way people see you forever,” she said.

She detailed her formula to maximize appeal, and she recommends “pause for three seconds” before entering the room, meeting new people or speaking.

“Keep eye contact before moving away. Stop before answering the question,” she advises. “Let’s breathe for a moment, not rush to fill it.”

According to Ward, the method works because “the pause shows confidence.”

“The rush seems nervous. She explained.

“Hold the eye contact to establish a connection. She continued: “Only 2-3 seconds can make someone lean towards you immediately. ” “This will tilt people. When you are not in a hurry, your words will bring more weight. ”

Experts have shared before that confidence improves sexual attraction – in fact, “undeniably attractive.”

“When you exude self-assurance and feel comfortable with your skin, others naturally attract you,” Clare Faulkner, a relationship and psychotherapist, had previously told the Daily Mail.

At the time, she also advised that anyone you talk to “really interested in another person and really listen”.

She added that making others feel important can make them “feel Friesen, they don’t want to leave your track”.