Can sex toys help get used to having something inside?

Hi, I’m 24 and I have a boyfriend and we’ve been together for about 8 years but we’ve never had sex (we’re both virgins). The main reason is that I find penetration scary because it hurts. I do want to have sex with him but I feel like I’m not turned on enough because of the fear and therefore that makes it harder for me to want to have sex together or even have sex. I have a sex toy but it only works on the clitoris so I was wondering if anyone could recommend some toys to help me get used to penetration and size?

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