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My wife (45, male) and my husband (44, female) have mentioned using vibrators in our bedroom activities. I’m pretty good at it, but have never used it on anyone. She occasionally used a small one in college and grad school, but not anymore. In other words, we’re both amateurs at it. She has an average libido, which means I’ll jump at any opportunity to increase her pleasure. I’m not insecure about what I bring to the bedroom, but that’s my experience. I’m a newbie here. Any advice on brands, mistakes I should avoid, etc.?
Bringing a vibrator into the bedroom
22
Sep
highly recommend asking her to show you what she likes in the heat of the moment. it’s the best way to learn what to do!
Since you’re both exploring, why not kick things off with something that offers a bit more bang for your buck? I’d recommend checking out [Utimi’s multi-functional vibrator](https://www.utimi.com/collections/for-woman). These gadget is awesome because it not only vibrates the clitoris but also stimulates the G-spot, giving you more versatility than a standard single-function vibrator.
As you start with this vibe, keep in mind there are loads of other fun toys out there to discover as you both get more comfortable and curious. Shopping together can be really exciting, letting you both figure out what tickles your fancy and what might be fun to try next.
Just remember to take it easy at first, try different settings, and don’t forget the lube to keep things comfortable. Most importantly, keep talking to each other about what feels good! This is all about enhancing your shared experience and having a great time together.
number one tip is to shop for them together. there aren’t any huge mistakes you can make but there is some trial and error involved to find toys that work for you, so don’t give up on the idea if the first thing you try doesn’t work.
there are a couple general categories:
-air pressure clitoris vibrators. (womanizer, satisfyer, etc. can often be used during piv sex)
-vibrating dildos. (the most boring category if you ask me. but a bullet vibrator is a good all purpose one to have.)
-g spot vibrators.
-wand vibrators. (typically more powerful, can be used during piv sex. magic wand is the most well known one.)
-cock ring vibrators. (rub against her pubic bone during sex. don’t wear them longer than 15-20 minutes orso.)
-anal vibrators/buttplugs. (can be used during piv sex, wall between vagina and rectum is very thin so it will change the experience. also worth trying yourself since you have a prostate.)
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non vibrating toys can also be very good. e.g. the njoy pure wand is a popular g spot dildo.
things like restraints or rope, blindfold, ballgags, ticklers, etc can also be fun.
sex furniture (type sex chair into amazon) or position pillows (liberator) can be worth looking into if you aren’t the fittest anymore.