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You’re on this page because you’re curious about this quirk (or at least want to understand why some people do it).
what is it? In the world of BDSM, wax The game involves dripping melted wax onto the skin of the participants.
However, this isn’t the same feeling as poking your fingers through a Thanksgiving candle. In fact, this type of play is closer to an intermediate or advanced level of BDSM. Mainly because it can cause serious permanent damage if done incorrectly.
How to wax safely? This involves several things.
Use a column or cup
Because you can let the wax melt and pool a little in the candle before it starts to drip, you have more control over the application.
Taper candles can drip oil just as fast as the wick burns, not to mention that taper candles may have additives to make them harder.
This, in turn, usually makes them burn more vigorously. This is not a good idea.
Using the Right Wax
- The melting point of soybeans is approximately 54 °C (130 °F)
It has the gentlest feel and is better for beginners because it cools and hardens when it touches the skin and is least likely to cause irritation. The wax is usually soft and cannot be formed into a column. You can store it in a glass jar with good results.
However, some users complained that it was too soft and a bit difficult to clean.
- The melting point of beeswax is about 63 °C (145 °F)
Do not play with the wax with these candles. It may not seem like a big difference, but it can have a big impact – and can even cause serious burns and blisters. These candles usually come in the form of tea lights or safety candles.
Beware of additives
The above melting points are average values only and apply only to Wax in pure form. When you add other things, it may Change the melting point temperature.
try to avoid:
Dyed candles – The additives and chemicals that give them their color also make them burn hotter.
Scented Candles – Chemicals in perfume can increase the melting point; the smell may also be too unpleasant for some people.
Metal Candle – Metal salts are toxic and can make burns worse and may even leave scars.
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Stearic acid – This is a common additive in candle and soap making (from processed beef or palm trees) which helps to harden the material. Avoid as it will significantly raise the melting point – even causing second degree burns.
important: There’s a rumor floating around the internet that colored candles burn hotter than plain white candles, and one person even referenced an episode of Mythbuster where they tested the temperature with light and dark cars. Don’t worry about it. sun Nothing to do with black and white materials The candle burns. The melting point has more to do with the material. The only reason the “white” is different is because There is less possibility of adding additives.
Comply with the “SSSC” rules
this means Safe, sane, sober and voluntary.
The way to do this is to research as much as you can on the subject (which you’re doing now, good job!), set up a safe area to play in, and have emergency supplies ready.
Neither party is allowed to drink alcohol.
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I know people associate wild, sexy times with letting loose with a few drinks, but in any BDSM situation you have to be 100% focused on your submissive, or (if you’re the submissive) understand how your body reacts to pain – remember, when we’re drunk we may not feel pain as much as normal, and that’s not a good thing.
Don’t forget your safeword! Need ideas? Check this out:
Good safewords and interesting uses in the media
Test it with your partner beforehand
The pain tolerance aspect of wax play is a challenge in and of itself. Just because someone enjoys being whipped until they’re blue, doesn’t mean they’ll enjoy the sting of hot wax.
Always test the candle on the inside of your own wrist before playing (yes, you shouldn’t do this on someone else if you’re unsure about it yourself). Then, test it on your partner’s wrist.
Remember that tolerance to heat pain is a very personal thing.
Always keep your distance
Never pour the wax onto your skin – drip it a few inches above your target. It takes a second to go from the candle to your skin, which still leaves enough time to cool down a bit. You also shouldn’t stay in one area for too long. Move on after dripping the wax, and go back to the connect the dots game once the wax has cooled.
However…
Keep in mind that the farther you drip the wax, the more likely it is to splatter. This can be dangerous because you don’t know where the wax will end up.
because of this, Never apply wax around your faceBesides being difficult to remove from hair, wax can cause serious damage or even blindness if it gets in your eyes. Even with an eye patch, it won’t matter. The skin around your face is very thin.
And then there are the SSSC rules we also discussed – emphasis on safety and sanity.
Enjoy a sensory experience
Wax figure games already provide enough opportunities for your subordinates. But adding other elements can add another layer of excitement.
- Kiss Things
- Caress their bodies while the weather is cool
- Playing with feathers or fur
- Using a vibrator or other sex toys
- Whipping wax can be fun and exciting
- Add ice cubes for a hot/cold sensation
- Use a butter knife to scrape off the wax – if you prefer a real knife, make sure you are experienced and very careful.
- Run your hands over the wax that has just cooled, the touch creates a sense of intimacy
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Aftercare
Any BDSM play requires aftercare. Kissing, cuddling, snuggling, drinking, comforting, etc. But for this kind of play, you should also add some Moisturizer or sunscreen containing aloe vera Perform a gentle massage on their very sensitive skin.
Other tips, tricks and rules
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- Never leave a lit candle unattended.
- Keep a first aid kit in your play bag (you should always carry it with you for any BDSM play).
- Whenever there is a fire, even if there is only one candle, you should always have a container of water with you just in case. Or a wet towel or a fire extinguisher.
- Do not place a candle flame on your skin – this is an extreme fringe game and is outside the scope of this article.
- Some subordinates may like this feeling but not realize it can actually hurt them. Stay alert and always communicate.
- Have your sub shave first—wax and body hair are incompatible with each other.
- Test different areas of skin – sensitivities vary Big, and everyone.
- Don’t let wax pool in your body’s natural “valleys” — it takes longer to cool and retains heat on your skin longer, which is bad.
- Don’t put wax in your belly button – even advanced, experienced users should only put in a small amount of wax and allow it to cool completely.
- Wax is for external use only – do not put wax into any orifices.
- Cover your piercings and tie your hair up – it’s hard to get away with it.
- Rotate the candle so it burns evenly and the wax stays clean.
- If you don’t know the height, use the 18-inch rule.
- A Very Applying a thin layer of massage oil beforehand can make the wax easier to remove (but there is debate in the community about whether oil affects the cooling time of the skin, so use it with caution, or not at all).
- The ice will harden the wax, making it easier to remove.
- Always have a safe word during any BDSM play.
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In addition to this information, I would encourage everyone to read as many articles as possible and even take a class if there are any available in your area. Keeping everything as safe as possible means you can feel free to have fun!
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What other fun things do you like to do when playing with wax figures? Any interesting experiences? Share them in the comments!