BDSM Suspension is an Art

BDSM Suspension – What is it?

BDSM suspension is a sport that extremists enjoy combining pain with pleasure. It is the practice of pushing sanitized hooks into the back/body. Suspension comes in many forms, the main one being self-suspension, which is a simple form of body art where one hangs gracefully from a hook.

It usually lasts anywhere from 5 minutes to 2 hours depending on your experience, some people can last longer, I can’t last more than 1 hour and 50 minutes, it becomes too much and I lose focus, the best way to explain the feeling is almost the same as the feeling of Zen/Yoga, meditation I guess.

How did I get suspended?

I personally got into this because I love pain, and by pain I mean extreme pain, I’ve had a lot of different modifications done, like having a stick pierced through my cheek and hung from a stick, scarring, skin peeling, and quite a few tattoos. I met a guy at a piercing/tattoo convention who really opened my eyes.

He personally considers it a kink, he enjoys having sex with women when they are hooked up, some might say it is almost a sick bondage show. To me it is pretty normal everyday behavior so I disagree but I can’t say I have ever mentioned it to a regular person without getting the weirdest reactions. So needless to say not many people know about this side of my life unless they ask or want to get involved.

What kind of suspension do I use and how does it work?

Suspension bondage is a form of sexual bondage where the person being held is suspended from one or more overhead suspension points. Suspension bondage carries a higher risk than other forms of sexual bondage. If the person being held has never experienced this type of bondage and does not know how to “make love” while another person is suspended, this type of bondage can be very physically damaging and dangerous. I would definitely recommend normal self-suspension for those who need or want a more stimulating stimulation.

How do I feel about the suspension?

Empowered is the first word that comes to my mind, strong, independent, beautiful, I grew up with siblings who were typical size 6 models and I struggled… so I had tons of plastic surgery to make myself perfect (as perfect as I could, or so I convinced myself). I would google the perfect woman, pick out who I wasn’t, and then go get the plastic surgery, I would say I was happy with the results but I wasn’t, I wanted more. The suspension is Bondage and Training Both beginners and experts can play it.

My point is that this exercise makes me feel more powerful than ever and beautiful in my lingerie like no one is watching. It is an exercise that every beautiful person can try no matter your shape or size. The heaviest I have ever done was 120 kg and the lightest I have ever done was 48 kg, and that was about a year ago.

Career suspension?

I started getting tattoos professionally at a studio I can’t name. I was 16, which isn’t a typical age to start getting tattoos, but my life at the time wasn’t typical either. I already had tattoos by then, and since I had no other options, I outgrew them quickly. I started doing solo shows for customers, then moved on to clubs and shows. The addiction grew and grew until I couldn’t stop, and I was getting up to 14 tattoos a week. A normal person wouldn’t do more than one a month.

Suspension costs?

If you are a beginner, suspension systems are not expensive, about $250 per ride. But when you become a pro and buy all your own gear and perform, the prices go up.

Different types of rigging?

There are two main types of rigging: dynamic rigging and static rigging. Dynamic rigging mainly uses ropes or similar, and uses a long rope to connect the boom to the equipment. In static rigging, each hook is attached to the equipment separately. The equipment is usually fixed to a tree, ceiling, scaffolding, etc. using a pulley, winch or backhoe.

Can different parts of the body be suspended?

Chest

A chest hang is a type of hang where the hooks are placed in front of the chest. This type of hang uses two hooks.

coma

Stun suspension is a type of suspension in which hooks are placed on the chest, torso, and legs, usually in two rows, so that the person being suspended lies face up.

knee

The hanging movement is hooked from the knees, hanging vertically with the head close to the ground and the knees at the top.

resurrection

Resurrection suspension is a type of suspension in which the person being suspended is supported by hooks, usually two rows of hooks on the abdomen.

Superman

The Superman suspension is the opposite of the coma suspension – the hooks are located on the back and legs, usually in two rows, so that the person being suspended lies face down. This type of suspension is so named because of its resemblance to Superman flying.

How can I improve my suspension performance?

Enhance BDSM suspension play with sensual elements like blindfolds, earplugs, or feathers to heighten sensations. Use ice or wax for temperature play to increase stimulation. Use vibrators or dildos to enhance pleasure while suspended. Add role-play scenarios to deepen the psychological layer. Use whips or paddles for impact play to explore pain and pleasure.

Use different suspension positions for challenge and excitement. Incorporate restraints like handcuffs or ropes for a safer experience. Experiment with different suspension heights and angles. Communicate openly with your partner to ensure safety and shared enjoyment. Always keep consent and safety top of mind in all activities.

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