Hi I’m an amab trans girl and have been wanting to try anal sex for a while and I finally gave in and got a 6 inch dildo and some lube and today I tried it and I made all the preparations , cleaned myself up, everything, it went in fine, no pain, I had bottomed out. But it just felt so full, like I didn’t feel anything, I got off but masturbated by other means. I don’t know what I did wrong, does this mean anal isn’t my thing? I’m really excited to finally feel penetration, but I’m just disappointed and currently just curled up in my comfy clothes eating chips and dip.
A bit disappointed after the first time
28
Sep
Most prostate-having folks don’t experience an anal orgasm their first time, many at all. That said, is the dildo angled for prostate stimulation? That can be a world of difference right there. Vibrations might also help, and there are preferences to be had on buzzy vs rumbly vibrations, as well. Could be the toy, could also be “not your thing.” I’m sure you’re well aware, but what flips one person’s switches may well not do the same for another. There’s likely more room to try/experience. Any more description on the toy might be evoke better advice. What’s the material, the shape, etc?
And curled up cozy with chips and dip sounds superb. Am jealous.