How to have sex quietly without being heard – Girly Juice

There are some sad realities in life that are unavoidable. Sometimes you lose people you love. Sometimes you have to pay taxes. sometimes– Those ones tragedy! – You must have sex quietly. My condolences. (or andSubject to availability. )

This is easier for some people than others – but if you have trouble keeping quiet when you need to during sex, here are some quick tips:

drown out the noise with more noise

If this is too obvious, you don’t have to turn up the volume on Barry White(!), but Some Some kind of music or other sounds can mask your cries of passion. I like the “pink noise” setting on the Dark Noise app (its tone is less harsh to me than standard white noise), as well as instrumental jazz and robotic science.

If you have a HomePod, Alexa, or similar device, you can even use voice control to request white noise, rain sounds, or music. This is useful when you’re in the heat of the moment, as you may not want to pause the action to set up the soundscape, like you’re Philip Glass.

Use quieter sex toys (or none at all)

You all know I love sex toys, but some toys are loud. If you’re worried about noise levels, prioritize silent vibrators when buying toys (my reviews often discuss noise levels, FYI!), and stay away from notoriously noisy toys like Fleshlights and Damn Machines.

Cover the sound source

In most cases, the source of the sound is your own mouth (or your partner’s mouth), in which case a ball gag might be useful, or even just burying your face in a pillow. Just make sure you’ve given a safety signal (e.g., double-tapping the other person’s arm or leg) so you can end the action quickly if these measures cause you to become short of breath at any time. Beginners may want to stick with “breathable” gags, which have holes in them to allow air to circulate, although they don’t muffle sound very well.

Sometimes the loudest noise can come from something no Your face, you may not be able to cover. For example, spanking someone under a blanket is quieter than spanking someone in the open, even though it’s harder to get a satisfying blow. (Punching is also quieter than slapping…)

Cushions any point of impact

For example, if your thighs keep slapping your partner’s butt every time you penetrate them, maybe one or both of you can leave your pants on (with the buttons undone, of course) to mask the slapping sounds. If your bed keeps hitting the wall, move it an inch or two away or tuck a pillow in the middle. If your bed is particularly squeaky, it might be smarter to have sex on the floor, at least when you have to be quiet.

Find alternative outlets for sound

Why Do Anyway, do we moan (or whimper, or scream) during sex? Sometimes this is a way to deal with strong feelings, in which case you can channel the urge into gripping the sheets, scratching your partner’s back, and other tactile outlets.

A big reason why I make noise in bed is to provide my partner with non-verbal feedback on what’s working so they can adjust their technique accordingly throughout the process of getting me out of bed. But when things feel particularly good, I can easily accomplish this by holding their arm tighter or breathing harder into their ear. Even if you have to be quiet, you can still be a good ass – and sometimes it’s hotter that way!

what is your Favorite way to make sex quieter?

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