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Bartenders are forbidden from the jar of marriage tips spark spark tip debate
Leaving cash tips for bartenders at weddings is very standard, especially if it’s an open bar.
However, a young bartender named Hannah Borsenik revealed the title “This is not a free man, a free man” in Tiktok’s video, and she is said to “not allow” a couple to put a tip at a wedding she is working on.
The video says too much – but at the same time, but it sparked a heated debate over the tips on the wedding in the comments section.
One commentator fired: “I don’t want my guests to be obliged to spend any money at the wedding as well…it’s cheesy.”
Another comment made a good point: “This couple should tip you, not guests.”
“Tip included in the contract. Don’t lie. It’s cheesy to ask a guest to tip,” others judged.
Borsenik Feel was forced to post a follow-up video in response to the thousands of comments she received in the original video.
“I got an hourly salary from the venue. The bride and groom didn’t hire me to be a private bartender at their wedding, so that’s why I usually have a tipped jar…my hourly salary doesn’t get tips.”
“…I didn’t sign a contract. I was just working on the venue and the bride and groom just said I didn’t have a tip jar.”
Of course, the commentator has something to say about Borsenik’s explanation.
“People who pay for the event should tip you late at night. I’ll be scared if you provide tips to my guests,” one quipped.
Another defended the young bartender: “I’m sorry, too, even if you get paid through the bride and groom, I don’t care. Make money. If people want to tip them, if people don’t want to give them, they won’t.”
Some Gen Z couples avoided this entirely by holding a dry wedding and cash bar, defending the move away from tackyness and calling guests complaining about “qualified.”
Rather than free-flowing wine, the couples prioritize transparency and budget awareness, the celebrations that sparked intense debate online about the true meaning of being a kind host.
In the ever-evolving culture of wedding norms, the debate about who should tip (or tip jars belong to) is just getting bigger and bigger.
But one thing is clear: money and manners are still a delicate dance when it comes to weddings.
