Learn about sexual desire with Valérie Tasso

transparentDesire won’t be in a hurry. It wipes slowly over time. Valérie Tasso, sexologist, writer and ambassador of Lelo

In a time of extensively discussed but often misunderstood, the highly acclaimed writer, sexologist and Spanish Ambassador Valérie Tasso invites us to reconsider all our knowledge of desire. and todayher new book Sexuality: Everything You Want to Know What does it mean for its true desire – emotionally, physically and culturally.

“In today’s society, many people struggle with it not too much desire, but lack. I see this every day at work, and it affects everyone – couples, singles, and even young people. So many people think that desires must appear; if not naturally; they think sometimes it breaks. But sometimes, we just need to wake up and feed the book. Sexologists and author of “Sexuality: Everything You Want to Know.”

To support the book’s insights and theories with real data, Lelo surveyed over 9,000 people around the world to understand how they understand, experience and express sexual desire today.

What is desire?

Often, “desire” refers to the energy that drives us forward and inspires us to pursue dreams, projects and desires. Sexual desire can be defined as emotional and physical attraction to others and can show in many ways from flirting to sexual intimacy. This desire is related to reproduction and is crucial to the emotional connection between people and others. As Valérie Tasso explains in the book: “The chemistry behind sexual desire involves a complex interaction of hormones, neurotransmitters and psychological factors.”

According to the investigation, 43% of respondents said their desires had both psychological and physical sensations, as if it was a deep feeling. Meanwhile, 25% of people experience it more psychologically (starting from the mind), while 20% say it is mainly physical (it starts inside).

Desire and Attraction: Not the same thing

Although 15% believe that sexual desire is the same as attraction, Half of the respondents (50%) thought they were related, but not the same thing. Science supports them. As Valérie Tasso explains: “Sexual attraction is related to the person you are attracted to, and sexual desire is the urge to act on this attraction… Both are important aspects of sexual behavior, but have their own characteristics. ”All in all, both can influence each other, which is why they sometimes mix together, even if they are not the same thing.

Multiple desires, one reality

Can you crave more than one person at a time? Obviously, yes, because most of us do. An amazing 81% of respondents admitted to experiencing sexual desire to multiple people at the same time. This is not a threat to monogamy, but a reflection of the layered and fluent nature of desire.

Valérie Tasso reminds us in the book: “Desire is not love. Being attracted to people outside of your relationship does not mean you are unfaithful – it means you are human.” After all, desire can be manifested in many ways, from romance to being attracted to a few people only by one’s body. It can also be manifested as polygamy, where people see consensus and open relationships with multiple partners.

Desire is not constant

While some people feel sexual desire frequently and randomly, others need to be warmed up more in their mood. It’s nice to know that a person’s sexual desire may change. Our survey shows Nearly half of respondents (45%) sometimes disappearthat’s normal.

Sexual desire may vary over time and may be affected by factors such as stress, physical health, relationships and personal experiences. Key points? As this book points out, fluctuations are not failures. Open communication, curiosity and mutual sympathy can help couples cope with mismatch and rediscovery intimacy.

“At Lelo, we believe that sex education must go deeper, beyond climax and technology, and start with understanding how desire really works. This book and survey confirm our long-standing suspicion: Shame and silence often follow when people are confused. If we want to change the conversation around sexual health, we must talk about desire openly, honestly, honestly about desire.”

While this book may not give you all the answers, it will provide a refreshing perspective rooted in science, experience, and history. “Sexuality: Everything You Want to Know” is more than a rich reading; it is an invitation to reflect, explore and understand yourself more deeply. It may not solve all the problems, but it will surely change the way you ask them.

The entire book is now available – explore in depth here.

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