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“Are you thinking about me?”

Young Asian man using laptop in bed at night reflecting the loneliness of young American man

Some say it’s just a wholesome trend – others say it’s a treatment for male loneliness.

A cute new trend with brothers (mainly Gen Z, but all ages included) – the guy who called them just said “good night”.

An unexpected emotional reaction is to pull the heartstrings on Tiktok.

In a large virus clip with over 3 million views, user @mirandafaye01 photographed her husband calling bud

He said in the edit: “Hi-What’s wrong?

His friend caught him off guard.

After the man sweetly said that he loved him, the shocked friend replied: “God deserves to die, I love you too.” […] I don’t know what to say; you caught me off guard. ”

The audience is in progress.

One user commented: “Prove that men need more platonic love.” Another said: “Anyway, this is the popularity of your loneliness with men, as long as you become friends with each other.”

tiktokker @sydsacks joined the trend, posting a video of a fiancé, calling his friend to say good night, and gaining 2.7 million views and chorus awwws.

A friend giggled, “What do you mean?” But when the caller doubled, he replied enthusiastically, “Okay, man, okay, good night. You’re so good. I hope you stay the night.”

The comments are glowing.

“Normalize this type of male behavior,” one wrote. Another rated it as “10/10” and called it “so beneficial.”

One even posted a major “green flag” at bedtime.

But this bedtime joke may be more than just a viral joke – it may involve a deeper question.

As mentioned earlier, a Gallup poll found that American men, especially Z, are often millennials, are the loneliest people in the country.

One in U.S. men under the age of 35 reported feeling isolated, while only 18% of women of the same age group – much more than their peers in countries like France and Canada.


The bedtime brother conversation may be more than just a blast line-it’s frustrating. As the post reports, young men are the loneliest people in the game. May Chanikran -Stock.adobe.com

“This is the head of a group of troops that already exist in the lives of boys and men,” psychologist Michael Reichert told Fort Well in a recent interview.

New York psychotherapist Justin Yong told the media that many men are retreating to “toxic digital occupants like games and porn” who “give this short-term dopamine hit and relief, replacing true intimacy and taking action is an easy barrier.”

Another culprit? Male norms.

Reichert added: “Of course the problem is that when they become less real, they even stay away from their important relationships and feel like they have to hide a part of themselves because the world doesn’t want them… starting with them.


this "Good night, brother" Trends may be exactly what American lonely men need - less than one-third of men feel isolated, much more than women or handsome guys abroad.
The “Good night, brother” trend may be exactly what lonely men in the United States need – less than a quarter of men feel isolated, much more than women or handsome guys abroad. stock.adobe.com

“[Loneliness] Go beyond the borders and is becoming a global public health issue affecting health, well-being and development.

Former American surgeon Dr. Vivek Murthy echoed the urgency.

“Given the far-reaching health and social consequences of loneliness and isolation, we are obliged to make the same investment in rebuilding the social fabric of society, what we do in addressing other global health issues, such as tobacco use, obesity and addiction crises,” he said in a previous statement.

Sometimes a simple “good night, brother” may be the first step.

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