She lay on the bed, staring at the ceiling, waiting for the end.
Her husband is not rough or unfriendly. He was very patient-always asked her if she was okay. But the truth is, she didn’t even know that it was OK.
She has no pain. She wasn’t excited either. It’s just… nothing.
She heard women talk about longing for their husbands’ touch and enjoying every moment of sex. But what about giving it to her? This is just something to be solved.
She began to wonder: “Am I broken or is my sex overrated?”
If you feel like the woman you just described, you are not alone. Many women strive to connect with fun – not because they don’t love their partners, but because their bodies are never trained to recognize and desire pleasure.
Here are some ways to train your body for fun
1. Stop waiting for happiness to “just happen”
Many women think that when it comes to being happy, you either feel it or don’t feel it. But that doesn’t necessarily work.
Of course, some women may feel happy without having to train their own body for their own body, but if I have learned anything from years of experience, it is that happiness is not a big thing.
The body and mind can be trained to recognize pleasure in many ways and feel more pleasant.
First create a space of sensibility:
- Please note the feeling of different textures on the skin.
- Let your mind wander out of sex without guilt.
- Try exercise – stretching, soft touch and even dancing – awakens the body’s consciousness.
The more you listen, the more your body will learn to recognize the feeling that it is good for you.
2. Shift the focus from performance to exploration.
Many women feel disconnected from the fun because they focus on doing the right thing rather than exploring the feelings that are good for themselves.
Rather than worrying about whether you are reacting “the right way” or satisfying your partner, ask yourself first:
- What feels good to me?
- Do I like slow touch or a firmer touch?
- What rhythm, smell or sound will make me feel good?
- Slow down and focus on your feelings, not your partner’s needs.
When you stop performing and start experiencing, your body becomes more susceptible to pleasure.
The more you practice, the easier it will be.
You should also enjoy happiness!
Imagine opening it before he even hits you. Imagine expectation, not as an obligation, but as a satisfying experience.
This is what my class covers “How foolishly fuck your man, love it, too.”
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Happiness is for you, so let’s make it happen!