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“Why can’t you be happy?”

"Why can't you be happy?"

Her love days ended with heartache.

A pregnant woman lashed out at her husband for her to-do list checking out something from her to-do list as a Valentine’s Day gift.

The 30-year-old wife admitted that her husband, 37, was “not the best gift giver” and that although he “really tried”, “missed the mark.”

Unfortunately, this Valentine’s Day gift (he hyped as “incredible”) is one of them.

“I didn’t need him to spend money or get extravagant gifts, but he built so much that I was so excited about the unexpected surprise. I guess I got it,” she wrote. krakenimages.com – stock.adobe.com

“He doesn’t even want to do date nights because he’s very sure he’s already come up with the best gift.”

“When I opened a spare closet and saw that my wedding dress wasn’t there, I immediately realized that my gift was him cleaning it.”

Although it looks sweet, the robe is just something on her to-do list, not the majestic gesture she expected.

Her husband professionally cleans the wedding dress as a Valentine’s Day gift – she herself intends to make a gift for months.

“We’ve only been married for a year and I never did the cleaning work because we thought we could retake the photos,” she explained.

“Cleaning and saving this outfit is always on my to-do list and I just don’t have the grasp, especially since I was five months pregnant.”

When he brought the dress back into the box, he confirmed it was indeed a “large special romantic gift.”

“I admire the gestures, but…is this just one item on my to-do list?” she laughed.

“I know it’s very expensive, but we have joint finance and I always plan to take care of the dress. I’m grateful that he took it off my plate, but for me it’s basically just running.”

Although he might not realize his wife was disappointed – and she might never let it slip, her mom said she was “A-” because she didn’t “appreciate” the gift.

“Again, I’m grateful that he’s on a business trip for me, but it’s not like a gift,” the wife said. “It’s really a romantic gesture, am I just a kid?”

When the reactions are mixed (some people attribute it to “poor communication”), the consensus believes she is “qualified.”

She claimed that attending gifts were just her errand list. Dodotone – stock.adobe.com

“He did what he thought he would like,” one person wrote in the comments. “It symbolizes how he wants to save and keep his day married to you.”

When asked what the woman was getting there for her husband, she said he was not a “gift guy” but she intended to get his favorite cologne and “probably ‘bible stuff’ according to his request.

“So it sounds like you weren’t here at that time,” one user said. “If I’m honest, I think you’re a little bit boy.”

“‘He really tried, but missed the mark.’ Can’t you just be happy that you have someone who works so hard to please you?” another critic wrote. “Do you know how many women would give such men a left tit?”

“I don’t think you’re happy with anything he did. I’m sorry for both of you.”

One commented: “For him, it might feel like he has saved an irreplaceable part of your love story, not just running.” “It’s been a year, so it doesn’t feel like the trivial things he does, It’s more like he’s doing everything he can to do what he thinks makes sense and what you’ll cherish.”

“Valentine’s Day has nothing to do with the amount he/she spends, it’s about what he thinks for you and he does, if he is no longer good at giving gifts, why do you set your expectations so high, Don’t expect anything, you can be happy with what he gets.” Another person said.

Redditor faces opposition from users, and they think she should appreciate it even more. Studio Romantic – Stock.adobe.com

Even so, the wife was disappointed and said she was “just depressed”.

“I didn’t need him to spend money or get extravagant gifts, but he built so much that I was so excited about the unexpected surprise.

“I think what I got is,” she said.

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