All daily inspiration can be found in the book “Rehabilitation and Rehabilitation of Sex and Porn Addiction”. Used with permission from the author. Click on the book cover image to purchase the book on Amazon.

Being gay, lesbian or bisexual doesn’t make you a sexual or porn addict, not making you a gender or porn addict straightforward.

Sometimes people seek sexual and porn addiction treatments, hoping it will change their sexual orientation. Sometimes they do so according to the request of a misleading family member, a mental counselor, or a clinician. However, it is impossible to remove elements from one’s wake-up template. If you are attracted to men, that’s it. If you’re attracted to women, that story; and, if you like both genders, you’d better get used to it, because no matter how much analysis you have or how many 12-step meetings you’ve attended, that won’t change. In short, sexual and porn addiction is not defined by who or what. Neither homosexual nor bisexual arousal patterns are diagnostic and porn addiction, even if these arousal patterns are self-dystonic (unneeded).

Today’s task
Try to accept (and maybe even celebrate) your own or others’ sexual orientation.