Women revealed their “strange excuses” of their cheating husbands

It is found that your other half is to deceive you as a profound trauma experience-but now, women are exposing the common behavior of men committed, further increasing damage.

After the ultimate betrayal, the guilty person often fully concealed it, and said a careful lie.

However, some men’s false depictions of truth have gone too far. The deceived women laughed and broadcast their loyal spouses that they told them the “weird excuses”.

“‘You have grown weight’ … I have been pregnant for 7 months. I am with his child,” a ex -wife shared.

“I said, ‘You are working, I can never see you anymore’. We work in the same place.” Another place revealed.

“‘You are so frustrated and can’t pay attention to me’. I just miscarriage our children,” said others.

Although the lie seems to be so obvious, many people who have left many people question why the guilty party dares to blatantly declare that this is not the case, but Carly Dober, a Melbourne psychologist, explained Human congenital people reduce damage to the greatest extent.

But don’t be fooled. She told news.com.au.

Dober, who works in Melbourne’s rich life psychology clinic, said: “It is a very, very difficult thing to infidelity and harm to people who care about you.”

“Men can usually create careful lies to minimize their infidelity, maintain their self -awareness, and try to minimize damage caused by the betrayal of the betrayal of being discovered. It’s too difficult to do.

“Many people will lie down because of negligence.”

One of the most shocking details of the virus video is one of the themes currently on TIKTOK. It is the culprit shared by “excuses”.

Du Bo said that this is because those who have hurt others often cannot face their behavior.

She explained: “Not many people can realize that you have hurt someone, you need to have (or multiple) dialogues, or their behavior is very harmful.”

“It is difficult to accept. Maybe in cheating, they do not act consistent with the way they want themselves or others to treat themselves.

“Passing and lying are short -term from this psychological distress, and it is usually very useless.”

Indeed, although the many “excuses” given by men are shocking, some people are so bad, but they are a bit interesting.

“I forgot to break up with you ‘the most reasonable excuse for my predecessor.” A shared.

“I told me ‘not, because he has been thinking of me, he can’t complete it.” Another laughed.

As another person simply said, “She looks like your bitmoji.”

“‘My personality is split. That’s another personality, Derek’,” a frustrated woman wrote.

In a separate video, a woman shared an excuse for cheating for a man. He explained: “I just teleport to her house in some way.”

However, although the ridiculous excuses may be easy to find, Du Bo said that not all lies are so obvious.

She said: “Being able to find fiber depends on the talent of the person lying.”

“Some people are very good at lying on your face directly, you will believe that they may betray them-but some of them may look like anxiety or general pressure.

“Some people’s stories may change, but this is not evidence of lies, because memory is feasible.”

One of the most urgent questions for anyone who is deceived wants to answer, although not why their partners lie, that is why they do this? Du Bo said it was complicated.

She told news.com.au. “It is not always related to sex for many reasons.” This is not always related to sex. “

“They may be angry with their partners and actively retaliate. They may have low self -esteem and want to pay attention to or verify. They may be low in their main relationships or relationships. I feel that their needs are not met in love relationships. At that time, they might have a pressure source of pressure such as conflict between relationships and then drove them to this behavior.

“If you agree with the monogamy at the same time, and your partner knows that this is your behavior, then all this will not betray your partner.”