I Have Strict Bridesmaid Rules – My Haters Say I Won’t Have Any Rules

It’s either “I do” or die to be by the bride’s side.

Most girls who are ready to take the plunge have a very specific vision for their wedding – including the look and mix of the bridal party.

But a cruel and “obnoxious” bride-to-be actually scolded her bridesmaids by enforcing a ridiculously strict set of rules to remind them who has the final say she Big day.

“Today is not your day,” the bride from South Carolina snarled as she laid out her marriage to-do list in an Instagram post. “Do as the bride asks or you won’t attend the wedding.”

“This is not your day,” she wrote. “If the bride wants everyone to wear makeup or have a specific hairstyle and you don’t wear makeup, don’t go to the wedding.

“Often it’s the people who scream ‘I don’t want any of this’ who end up looking less likeable than everyone else,” the bossy brunette wrote. Now, if you have a specific style (locks, Elf, cut, etc…). “

And the demands of an authoritarian heroine don’t stop there.

She joins the ranks of many ferocious fiancées who impose wacky bylaws on the less fortunate friends they deem eligible (or most malleable) to attend their weddings.

A ‘deranged’ man branded the girls at her wedding party and forced them all to wear gold necklaces with her name on them during the ceremony.

Another crazy bride-to-be insisted members of her clique each take out $20,000 loans to finance her pre-wedding adventure. Her list of “non-negotiable” expenses includes a $700 dress fitting in New York, $1,200 for beauty treatments, a $500 spa weekend in the Berkshires and $1,000 for miscellaneous grooming and grooming the week of her wedding. Party expenses.

In July 2022, Utah bride Katie Olson Hart walked down the aisle and was accused of hosting an “Almond Mama Wedding” after a video of her forcing her bridesmaids to exercise went viral.

The South Carolina bride is now enduring a similar rebuke from online protesters over her outrageous wedding day edict.

“Today is not your day,” she repeated before rule number three. “If today is your day, act the way you want your bridal party to act.”

“Today is not your day. You look jealous when you object to every little thing, especially the ones you didn’t pay for,” she spat. “Be grateful or don’t go to the wedding.”

The domineering beauty then wrote: “You are TEAM BRIDE. If you don’t want to act like everyone else, switch to “Team Guest.” Sit down and spread the rice (preferably raw).”

Of course, the last thing she wants is money.

“Today is not your day,” repeated the bride, who closed the Instagram comments section to stop onlookers from expressing their thoughts to her.

“If you can’t afford to attend the wedding, let the bride know in advance,” she adds. “Don’t take it and skimp on it, especially if it’s been a year or more. Plan accordingly.”

However, critics online took to Reddit to unabashedly slam the soon-to-be-married woman under a screenshot of her controversial call-to-action.

“At least she gives everyone a chance to join the ‘no go team’ every day,” one commenter quipped.

“That’s so annoying. “This isn’t your day, it’s my day. “That may be true, but who wants to celebrate someone with such a self-centered, arrogant attitude? You are a bride for a day, not the queen that everyone should adore,” wrote another.

“If she keeps this up, she’ll end up with no friends,” predicted an equally offended Reddit user.

“The team didn’t even send a gift,” shouted another.

“It’s absolutely unbearable,” said one cynic, who seemed to blame the recent wedding craze for brides’ sense of superiority.

“This is a prime example of how wedding culture has become exhausting,” the jaded critic continued. “I could go on and on, but reading this I’m already so excited I want to quit.”