I shame my husband for being fat – people think I’m ‘cruel’ but I am

A woman has admitted she fat-shamed her husband but thought it was completely justified.

The conflict began with a simple discussion about dinner.

“Last night, I suggested to my husband to finish the leftovers in the refrigerator because we still had a lot of food to eat,” she recalled.

But her husband had different advice.

‘He told me I was mean’

“He immediately retorted, ‘Don’t you want to go get nachos?’ I shook my head and said firmly, ‘No,'” she explained.

At this point, things took a turn for the worse.

“Then he sighed dramatically, as if I had crushed his dream, and declared: ‘You don’t feed me. ”

“You wouldn’t be overweight if I didn’t feed you,” she retorted.

As soon as these words came out, the tone of the conversation changed dramatically.

“He told me I was being mean and that my comments were uncalled for,” she said.

However, she defended her harsh response.

“I stood my ground and explained that I was only saying that because I felt insulted by his original words,” she explained.

“Unnecessary meaning”

Feeling conflicted about the exchange, she turned to Reddit to ask if she had crossed a line or if her reaction was justified.

Reactions were mixed.

“Your reaction was unnecessary, mean and just awful. Do you two still like each other?” one commenter asked.

“You said it was cruel,” another argued.

A third added: “I definitely think the way you’re going about this is wrong.”

However, others came to her defense.

‘You won’t feed me’ should not come out of a grown man’s mouth,” defended one comment.

“She didn’t shame him. She pointed out that she did feed her ungrateful ass. According to him, that’s apparently her job,” another pointed out.

The woman said the argument may have stemmed from a deeper issue: feeling unappreciated in her relationship.

“This isn’t the first time I’ve felt unappreciated,” she said.

She expresses frustration at the imbalance in their relationship.

“During the holidays, my time is spent taking him out to eat or cooking for him, making sure he eats the food he likes,” she complained.

“It’s tiring to put in so much effort and be told I’m not doing enough.”