Open Relationships – Sex and Relationship Healing

Time will inevitably reveal dishonesty and lies. History has no place for them.

The simple truth is that if we want an open relationship, even during sexual recovery, it doesn’t have to be an unattainable goal. But it’s important to do this with integrity, which means we have to discuss it with our partners first. Why? Because a healthy relationship means each partner has an equal right to know everything that matters. If we shudder at the thought of this approach, it’s probably because we’re pretty sure our partner won’t like or agree to an open relationship. Or maybe we want the right to sleep everywhere, but we’d rather our partner stay home, be blissful in his or her ignorance, and be completely committed to us.

today’s task
When you have sexual thoughts or desires, examine your motives and consider how your actions may affect others.