Bought a Curvy 2+ as my first toy but can’t seem to imagine…

I (24F) have always found masturbation a bit off-putting to me and I would like to improve this, not only for myself but also for my partner (25M) so that we can enjoy our sex life more. So after thorough research, I purchased the Satisfyer Curvy 2+ and was super excited to try it and use it to help me enjoy masturbating (haha, I know it sounds weird but it’s so easy for me). However, I tried the air pulse setting and the vibration setting, and well, I was a little disappointed, not because I didn’t feel anything, but because I felt no sexual pleasure or arousal. Did I do something wrong? Should I try something before using a toy, or am I lacking some of the skills needed to experience the pleasure of a clitoral suction cup? I don’t know haha, I feel a little lost about it all and it’s a little scary to be honest. Any advice on this would be greatly appreciated!

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