What should couples pay attention to on their first night?

How to avoid first night bleeding? First intercourse on the wedding night. When a man’s penis is inserted into the vagina, the hymen is often broken and cracks, causing slight bleeding and mild pain. For the vast majority of brides, this is not a problem.

Every bride’s hymen is very thick, or the hymen hole is too small, or the man is impatient, rough or too hard during intercourse. Sometimes the hymen will be severely torn, and the crack may even extend to the bottom of the hymen. the vagina, turning into a complete rupture, causing the vagina to rupture, causing severe pain or more bleeding in the woman.

If there is heavy bleeding, there is no need to be nervous. You can immediately fill the vaginal opening with soft, clean toilet paper or gauze, and wear tight menstrual or elastic shorts to stop the bleeding. You can also use a clean gauze pad, and then press hard on the bleeding area with your fingers for a few minutes, and the bleeding will usually stop. However, if the bleeding persists after such treatment (observe whether the filling gauze continues to bleed), you should go to the hospital in time for local suture treatment of the wound to stop the bleeding as soon as possible.

Reminder: Sometimes, because a woman’s hymen is thick or her hymen hole is too small, or a man’s sexual intercourse is violent, there may be more bleeding after the hymen is torn. More serious cases will not only cause large cracks in the hymen, but also tear the wall of the labia minora, resulting in heavy bleeding.

Precautions for couples on their first night

The first and early sex life of newlyweds is of course very satisfying. But some people are not satisfied, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge, both parties have just come into contact and are prone to nervousness, shyness and fear, and it is normal to have a bad sex life. However, it is better to have a good wedding night. Please note the following:

1. Pay attention to external genital hygiene

On your wedding night, you and your husband should clean your vulva with warm water and mild soap. The newlyweds are busy and tired because of wedding shopping and entertaining relatives and friends, and smegma in men and vaginal discharge in women increase. If it is not cleaned, it will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take contraceptive measures

If men and women do not want to have a child right away and do not take birth control pills, both husband and wife will have worries, and the woman will be even more afraid of getting pregnant, so she will not be able to concentrate fully. and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills on time or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, will concentrate and achieve satisfactory results in their sex life.

3. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen

Once the hymen is ruptured, use sterile gauze or cotton to wipe away minor pain and a little bleeding. It is best to have intercourse every 2 to 3 days to prevent inflammation of the wound. If the hymen is ruptured, the bleeding is heavy, and the pain is unbearable, you should consult a doctor.

4. Correct treatment of premature ejaculation

During the first sexual intercourse, men may not have sexual intercourse due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement. You should forgive this situation. This is not premature ejaculation. With the development of sexual knowledge and the accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, the tacit cooperation between the two parties will soon return to normal.

5. Cooperate closely and be respectful to each other

At the beginning of sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially women, whose psychological state is more complex and mentally tense. You should ask your husband to move gently. If you can’t try it several times at a time. Women should also actively cooperate, overcome tension and fear, actively relax their minds, quickly arouse sexual excitement, produce more vaginal secretions, and have good lubrication effects, which can not only reduce the pain during sexual intercourse, but also reduce the pain caused by hymen abrasions. .